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Posted Tuesday, July 30, 2024
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Dating fears and self-esteem
Does anyone else open their dating apps because they miss having an intimate connection, but then convince themselves they're not good enough for any other person on the app, swiping away from people you like because you're convinced they could never like you back? Or having the courage to match, only to find you let conversations die quickly for the very same reason?
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