This is true for both men and women. If they like you they are never too busy to show you how much they like you. It's about changing priorities and making time for the person you are dating.

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Ashley

1mo

INFP

Leo

This applies for both men and women, if she doesnt make the time and effort shes not the one for you. Find someone who will take that time and give you the same energy you put out, same with respect and also compromise, if you are bending over backward in your relationship and the other person is not and you find yourself having to always appease them to make it work, they are not the one for you. I say this to all my guy friends and girl friends. If its always an issue that your partner as to get their way in order to make tge relationship work, they are not the one for you. Same with the comment above, if you are putting all thw work and time and effort and they are not, its not really a relationship is it, uf you are the only one keeping it going and planning to meet only for it not to fall through.

Chris

1mo

ISTJ

Gemini

Too bad its not usually reciprocated

Fedi

1mo

INFP

Gemini

But what if he is making time but she dont answer

Marc

1mo

ISTJ

Libra

It's just when it's not reciprocal will he stop the effort. Time is not something to be wasted.

MacLeod

1mo

INFJ

... unless you start fashionably ignoring and ghosting him, or playing other s..... childish games with him; nothing will make him disappear more quickly without glancing back! 😆

Janey

1mo

INFJ

Taurus

Very well said.

Ashley

1mo

INFP

Leo

💯%

Patrick Starfish

1mo

ISTP

Sagittarius

This is so true!!!

IceMelon

1mo

ISFJ

Gemini

Zel Lei

1mo

ESTJ

Libra

Ha ha we're those men... Where can I buy one... Lmao..

Felix

1mo

INTP

Aries

Something I feel I probably could have benefitted from sooner when one girl wouldn't message me back

Nat

1mo

INFP

Taurus

Defo true more peeps need to see this :o

Garry

1mo

ISTP

Leo

Effort is everything in a relationship

Grey

1mo

ISTJ

Virgo

Very true

Debi Kalyan Jayasingh

1mo

INFJ

Aquarius

😭😭😭😭😭😭omg

Edo

1mo

ENFJ

Virgo

Please stop putting this idea in peoples heads. It's creating a stupid catch 22 where individuals identifying as women expect males to put in effort but also find that effort a turn off. It's toxic and probably why I keep ending up with men/males. Sick of this toxic bs.

Furorian

1mo

INTP

Capricorn

I'm smurt. I don't waste my energy and resources on some woman that doesn't throw in any effort herself. Every woman has enough simps in her inbox, no need for me to be one. Effort for effort. So if you don't get anything back: He's not interested or you're not showing enough interest to be worth the effort.

Solon Sam

1mo

ENFJ

Capricorn

Well it sounds true if your definition and understanding of the Word “EFFORT” is vague too narrow to be content, If this all you want for an “Effort” ya’ my dear you are at a huge loss.

Winston

1mo

INFP

Leo

Jordan

1mo

INTP

Gemini

I don't think this is 100% true. One party may think the other is not putting in enough effort when the issue isn't really lack of time, it may just be they think you aren't interested.

Lina

1mo

ENTJ

Scorpio

That means have never been loved🥹🥹🥹🥹

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ESFJ

Sagittarius

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ISTP

Capricorn

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Love this top ☺️

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ENFJ

HNY🥂🌸

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Cancer

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ISFJ

Leo

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ESFP

Capricorn

Dating is about long-term commitments or spending memorable moments ?

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Long term commitments

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Aries

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Cancer

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Leo

Welp...

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Taurus

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Aquarius

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Sagittarius

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Libra

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Gemini

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Virgo

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Scorpio

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INFP

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Cancer

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Capricorn

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Cancer

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INTP

Aries

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