slow replies doesn't necessarily mean they're not interested. They may be busy, or may not be on their phone. But to think of it, sometimes it does feel like they're not interested.... just saying.

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I'll deal with slow replies as long as there's potential. Are people really so busy they can't send a quick message? No. And most people are always on their phones. 🙄

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I mean not really. If you are not a priority to them at all. Yes. But some people at just busy with their lives. Basically depends on how Genuine the individual is.

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There are different levels of slow replies. If they take 8 months to open your message, then another two months before sending you a message but still completely ignore your original message, that's a red flag. It's also the norm for me...

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They could inform they are busy and will reply in detail later.

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I think the problem is what a "slow reply" could actually mean or indicate. For One most people have to work for a living. So Monday through Fridays you should expect a delayed reply. Unless they're working oddly timed work shifts. I don't see a slow reply as a deal breaker necessarily. But after a certain amount of given time. Then I would say yes. It would just have to depend on the individual level. Give Benefit of a Doubt. (edited)

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But firstly, you have to asked yourself if you are, too.. then only if you not you are ‘entitled’ to ask other people if they are dry texter..that’s what i think. if you wanna have one you yourself have to be one. thats my two cents.

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