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Posted Sunday, May 19, 2024
27d
INFJ
Is it really hard?
I read often posts here of people complaining about not finding “love”, “a soulmate”, or blaming their opposite sex. My question is, is it really that hard? Or do you do absolutely nothing to be in a relationship? I mean, even if we all are here. We must know that it is unlikely that we get into a relationship with someone you met online. Even online, it takes dedication, compromise and lots lots lots of talking. Also, are you really working on it? Or are you scrolling and making a fuss because it does appear magically in your inbox? Please let’s work in our emotional intelligence and in what we truly want and have to offer instead of blaming others for our lacking.
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27d
ENFP
Unpopular take but it's true. And add a selection bias for people on dating apps who often struggle for various reasons to connect with others IRL (NOT saying this is NECESSARILY the case) I know critical takes on sites like these are unpopular but I think your point's well-warranted (edited)
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27d
INFP
Aquarius
Agreed, I think also allot people miss the fact that the majority of people on dating apps are lonely men( not sure about this one specifically) but, just going on sheer numbers it's not gonna happen for most of us. People need to learn how to communicate better for sure though
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INTJ
Scorpio
I don't really blame anyone other than me, as you implied finding your life love is a pretty though task, it really takes a lot of time and may lead you to many disappointments especially if you have very big expectations, in addition it is really hard to talk with someone that you liked just to find after a long time that he wasn't as you thought or seemef to you.. so i stopped searching and i started to more work on my life believing that one day i will met my life love by chance.
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