Imani

Posted Wednesday, December 6, 2023

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Question for the ladies!

Are girls allowed to spoil guys? Or more specifically the guy they are into or with? I ask because I'm curious what that is actually like? 🤔 🤣

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Kai

2mo

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Can you rephrase the question please?

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Imani

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My bad I edited it 😅 I have no Idea why it changed

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Sarah

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What does "openly guys" mean? Is [insert person] allowed to [insert thing]? Yes. Always yes. Whether or not they do, will, should is another matter.

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Imani

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My bad I edited it 😅 I have no Idea why it changed

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Sarah

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@Imani okay. Intended question makes sense. See original comment for answer 😁

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Janeen

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I never been in an open relationship, but my mindset when it comes to be open with someone whether you are masc or femme, is that being in open relationships should be more so connecting with others to fullfil needs (preferably between one other person or someone you'd both know) vs dating just to date.

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Imani

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Noo not open lol sorry I think my phone autocorrected at the last second

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Janeen

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@Imani OOOHHHH,,, I think both is ok. Ofc don't go so overboard with someone who isn't your partner, but yeah I think it's ok

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Connor

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If you're talking about a polyamorous relationship, the first thing I can tell you is that is the biggest plague on your mental health that will ever exist ever, keep everything as monogamous as possible. If it's just between you and your partner, or the one you're dating, I see no reason why the woman can't also spoil the guy, because normally it's the other way around. Remember people, relationships are a revolving door, a two-way street, whatever analogy you want to use for it

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Jaz

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One of my love languages is gift giving and that's a form of spoiling so yeah, I'd spoil my man lol with his permission or not he gonna get something from me

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cole

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Give and take , is the best

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Elly

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Seems you've edited the question...as long as he's my person I'm definitely allowed to spoil him. I mean why not? That's why we call each other partners in a relationship, yes he may be at the upper hand of doing things coz he's "the man" but spoiling him, yep definitely do that without hesitation, he's your man after all, he deserves that too as much as you do as woman.

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Liz

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Yep, all different sorts of spoiling too.

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Jaquoia

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What? lol

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Imani

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I edited it!! 🤣

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Jaquoia

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@Imani mhmm mhmm, well yes, imo women are allowed to spoil men, but it depends on the individuals themselves. Everyone have different beliefs and preferences.🤌🏾

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Dylan

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Of course they're allowed to but they won't. If you're trying to make a profit you won't spend money you don't have to to do so.

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Jessi

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I'll spoil a man if he spoils me too

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Deb

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Aries

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Yes. I spoil my guy with attention and love..

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