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Posted Monday, May 20, 2024
1y
INFJ
Aries
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Do you genuinely have the capacity for a love relationships?
Most peoples want it by having natural expectations of what the others can give them; specifically emotional supports. We want someone that can do this and that for us.. Does it occur to you if you genuinely have it in you? are you mentally prepared to give your own capacity to others when you can’t barely have enough for yourself? This is basically something to ponder, just a different pov when it comes to this stuff and i’m honestly talking about myself..nothing to do with other peoples, but if you resonate we are in the same boat. ⛴️ Of course as a human i do have the feelings to naturally want a love relationship at some point in my life and maybe i really need to strengthen my capacity first so i can do better in a love relationship if it happened (again) one day. Sending good vibes & positivity to ya’ll. 🫶💕✨ (edited)
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Sally
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INTP
Virgo
Yes personally. You can definitely be loved when you are struggling and don't have much to give. Love can be unconditional. You are worthy of love in this moment. I hope that you find someone who is willing to go through the ups and downs with you. Just like you'd be willing to persevere with them. Definitely a relationship shouldn't hinge on suffering though so don't torture yourself. I think you asking these questions of yourself indicates a big heart and capacity to love. I hope you find the soul that resonated with yours.
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♡ Câz ♡
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ISTJ
Libra
Yes, people can try to make time. Even for me, if I need to pay for some babysitting, or take some time off work, or go to bed late then that is what I'd do (Maybe not everyday or else I'd be tired and be a moody partner). But still, sacrifice is part of relationships. If u want it to work, u do what u can to make it work. Just like a plant, u can't expect it to grow if u don't water it. Emotionally, I still get anxious or worry the same thing will happen as my last relationship (Micro-cheating and ex left me for much much younger lady who was half his age) but I still would give a new b/f benefit of the doubt and be available emotionally too. If you get burnt, at least you tried. It's either going to be a lesson learned or a good experience, so either way is still good. Also a good relationship is not mentally draining and challenging, it should be relatively easy (edited)
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Hitesh Harsh
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INTP
Aquarius
I do want to be in a loving relationship but somehow it doesn't go in my favour
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MaiMartha
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INTJ
Leo
#preach
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