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Posted Sunday, July 7, 2024
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💜**Emotional Manipulation**: Using guilt, shame, or pity to control a partner’s emotions and actions. They will constantly put you down. 💜 **Gaslighting**: Making a partner doubt her reality or perceptions to gain control. “I never said that” 💜**Isolation**: Cutting a partner off from friends and family to make her more dependent on the abuser. 💜**Love Bombing**: Overwhelming a partner with affection and attention early on to gain trust and loyalty quickly. This is how they hide their true selves at the beginning. 💜**Blame Shifting**: Making a partner feel responsible for issues or conflicts in the relationship. Nothing is ever their fault. 💜**Withholding Affection**: Using affection as a reward or punishment to control behavior. Silent treatment is a big one. 💜**Financial Control**: Controlling money and resources to limit a partner’s independence. 💜**Threats and Intimidation**: Using threats of harm or leaving to control a partner’s actions. Threats to you, family, children or property. 💜**Minimising Feelings**: Dismissing or belittling a partner’s emotions to undermine her confidence and self-worth. This behaviour makes you stop speaking out about how you’re feeling. 💜 **Creating Dependency**: Encouraging a partner to rely on him for emotional, financial, or social support to reduce her independence. Trauma bond. 💜**Playing the Victim**: Acting like the wronged party to elicit sympathy and manipulate a partner into forgiving bad behaviour.
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