Patricia
Patricia

1y

INTP

Aries

9
1

When choosing a potential partner, you are choosing based on:

Similar views/ outlook on life

Good chemistry

Physical appearance

Same passions/interests

Financial/ status stability

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Joel

Joel

1y

INTP

All of the above, but in the order of: Chemistry, views, interests, physical appearance, finances. (edited)

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David Rogers

David Rogers

1y

ESFJ

Virgo

8
7

I feel when it comes to relationships people always say they check the boxes so like you would have a checklist of things you like and if they can fit most of what you are looking for then you go for it. So really a little bit of everything from what you mentioned above tho some take more priority

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James

James

1y

INFJ

Taurus

Some similar views, some of the same passions/interests, chemistry and some sexual attraction. I still believe other perspectives and things different to me are good things to have. I definitely don't expect someone to agree with me all the time I don't think it's possible for anyone to do that.

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Laetitia

Laetitia

1y

ENTJ

Gemini

7
8

Chemistry is nice but...often you can have great chemistry with people you wouldn't be compatible with in a relationship X) it's a funny thing.

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Richard Phoenix

Richard Phoenix

1y

ENFJ

Leo

5
4

Similar views incredible chemistry same passions and interests

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Nico

Nico

1y

ISTJ

Taurus

4
5

Chimestry and physical appearance💀 Im abit confused by overall results tho cuz appearance do matter alot, if it didnt matter there wouldnt be that much singles and financial status ranked as lowest is just funny, its either 90% votes are from dudes or ppl trying to be modest, its well known that a broke dude is a no for most women

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Richard🇦🇺🦦 Justified & Ancient

Richard🇦🇺🦦 Justified & Ancient

1y

INFJ

Sagittarius

6
5

Most of those come into play

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Margo

Margo

1y

ENFP

Aries

2
1

Similar views, interests, financial status and stability the most important ones.

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Damian

Damian

1y

INTJ

Cancer

8
7

Yes. All of them.

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Daniel

Daniel

1y

ENFP

Aquarius

The same passions ,We may be different in many things, but we will always love our passions, if we share the love of those few things in common we will enjoy that time and thus we will love each other, everything else fluctuates (money, health, emotions, places, people) and if there is no enough love, everyone will simply seek to fill the void with what they are passionate about. That's what I think, most likely I'm wrong, or I hope so.

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Даша

Даша

1y

INFP

Pisces

I choose from multiple things.

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Shmuel

Shmuel

1y

INFJ

Aries

Nun of the above.

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Shafiq

Shafiq

1y

INTJ

Aries

3
4

Similar views because I prioritize loyalty and respect and I hope my partner views it the same way. Emotions can always change, especially after a bad argument. But it's those views that will not let those emotions affect the relationship forever.

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Paulo

Paulo

1y

INTJ

Aquarius

8
7

Honestly, what’s chemistry? No two people will have the same definition. It’s like “vibe” and means close to nothing

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Arvin

Arvin

1y

ENFJ

Libra

I’m choosing based on the first four options.

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Tistou

Tistou

1y

INFJ

Taurus

For me it has to match on each of those points, but good chemistry is the first I check for, since even if we don't work out, we both had a good time getting to know each other.

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Icarus

Icarus

1y

ENTJ

Sagittarius

5
6

Can't be just one. You have to have chemistry and similar values AT LEAST. Though if I really have to pick, it's chemistry; if you don't enjoy your day to day interactions with someone, why bother?

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Ori

Ori

1y

ISTJ

Taurus

8
7

Similar views Good chemistry Same passion interests And inner beauty I don't care much for apearences even more In this age of fake people

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