Cody

Posted Wednesday, May 15, 2024

20d

ISFP

Libra

I say a lot of things that people really don't like fairly often on here. Part of that is because I don't like lying to people. A part of me would rather be hated by everyone rather than lie to them.

I see a lot of confused guys on here especially who have no idea what to do or how to woo a woman, and that's really a good example of what I'm getting at I suppose... a lot of women don't really contextualize what qualities they want in a guy and I think that's done on purpose because the men take dating advice from wherever, it doesn't work, so they ask girls what they should do, and that doesn't work either because they can't understand what she's telling them. Then the guy ends up in this dark place where he's making posts talking about how miserable he is when it never does him any good to be open about it. I know because I used to be that guy a long time ago. I see what happens to people who get lied to, and what they become or turn into when they're searching for truth and trying to make sense of the world around themselves. It's never good, and sometimes the world even encourages it - a man might say that a guy should be in charge and boss a woman around or a woman might tell other women that they should use manipulative tricks on men to see what they do. I don't like any of that stuff at all because it turns people into monsters - or, at least the kind of monster that I specifically don't want to have anything to do with. Sure, someone might hate you for telling them the truth, but someone has to be benevolent enough to reach out to someone and try to get them to see, because it's like two statements that are etched into my personal memory: "When a Man lies, it murders some other part of the world." "A single lie from a single person has the power to ruin the world."