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Moana
Moana

7mo

ENFJ

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What is your philosophy about this kind of life situation?

You are staying at your friend's home or your sibling's home (together with their family; wife and kids) and at breakfast time, they prepare something nice only for themselves and you all sit at the table and they all eat comfortably infront of you as you sip some hot water ginger water that you made for yourself. You are staying at this home because you got an emergency and your sibling/friend just offered to help you and give you a place to stay as you find a place for yourself. But you also offer to buy some necessities of the home like some of the breakfast they just ate infront of you!! And you always try to buy snacks for everyone. This is my situation and fine, I told them one time that I don't like to eat dinner because I sleep badly if I do BUT I still don't think that is a good explanation for this. Most of the time, I am clearly just trying my best Not to be burden and Not to inconvenience them as much as possible so I can be polite and say that I don't need something even when I may need it. My personal view is that that is a bit too insensitive. I just cannot comfortably eat something infront of a friend without offering them some. If I really don't want to share, then I will eat when they are not around. I don't have hard feelings towards these people. I think we are just very different.

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Angel
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This is not some idea, however I am so sorry to hear this. You deserved the meal, just the same. I went through this when living with family in a hard time. Remember, not everyone has the same heart as you. They will learn their lessons when the time is right for them. In the meantime, it is important to see the beauty and intent in your own soul, and that you will not have the burden of needing to learn this lesson. I pray you find the love you deserve, be it from friends, a partner, family. I pray also that you see yourself and can hold your head high knowing exactly who you truly are. (edited)

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Adan
Adan

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Leo

It's only bad if they're not leaving you a share of the food you help paid for to cook. Is that help in replacement of rent? If so is money tight because I would go out while they are having breakfast and eat out in a breakfast joint.

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When I invite someone to stay with me, they are in their own home, which means they are allowed to & capable of feeding themselves. That person is treating you like you belong in their own home that they were kind enough to allow you to stay & you're still looking for the negative? I don't think they are the ones with the problem at all.

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