3y

ENTP

Gemini

21

Does anyone know any ways to help decrease self paranoia in relationships. After being played so many times I've developed extreme trust issues and it makes things a bit difficult.

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Paul

3y

INTJ

Aries

it's not paranoia if they really are a danger to you, and they can be, so I think you may have just developed a greater understanding of the risks involved

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Fahim

3y

ISFJ

Virgo

65

Lower your expectation in a relationship. Take it slow and maybe take some time off from relationship and focus more on yourself. You can do this man! I hope everything will be better soon 😊

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Marsoleno

3y

ENTJ

Pisces

78

Hey Nathaniel, try this give who ever your in relationship or who you want to be in a relationship with 1% of your trust and make them earn the other 99%

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Kelly

3y

ENFP

You need to determine if this person has given you a reason not to trust them. If you look back to past relationships and really think about it, I bet there were warning signs you missed. Like their actions didn't match their words, you caught them in lies, they screwed over other people in their lives, they cheated on past partners, cheated at tests or things in life, stole things, talked badly about friends or family, goes missing and didn't respond to your messages, etc. Once you feel you've identified those red flags, tell yourself with a new person that if you don't see any red flags, you have to force yourself to believe in them and have trust until they break it. It's not their fault what past people have done, and lack of trust when they've not done anything is only going to hurt you both. When starting any new relationship, you have to have faith in them until they've broken it. That's the hardest part about a new relationship when you've been hurt in the past, but it's a worthy goal that paves a path to a better life and happiness. However, the flip side of that coin is you can't ignore red flags and hope they don't mean anything. Because that's how you end up in the same situation again.

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