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Posted Monday, July 8, 2024
2mo
ENFP
Leo
What’s your tolerance for different texting styles?
If someone doesn’t respond right away, takes a few days, weeks, or months to reconnect, how do you respond? Do you allow the space for reconnection? Or do you value yourself and decline? Historically I’ve been the guy to take it personally, and justify not reconnecting or maybe I even respond with something passive aggressive because my ego is hurt from being ghosted. But nowadays, I tend to remain very open to gaps in response times. People have varying interest levels over time. Life comes up. Our minds are complex machines with infinite variability. Being tolerant and understanding can actually be done while sustaining one’s own emotional energy. Now, there are genuinely manipulative self-serving people out there, but I don’t believe that’s the norm.
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Ryan
2mo
INTP
Taurus
I just delete the conversation and move on regardless if they don't respond that's on them I figure if they want to reply they will
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Via
2mo
INFJ
Depend on what type of connection I have with him If he's only a friend,so no problem But if that's my "situationship","relationship, I choose declines
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Liathán
2mo
ISFJ
Taurus
Great question, I just dont put the energy in if it's slow process. I'm like everyone has time I I'm understanding to lots due to people's backgrounds & how they live. If people really wanna connect with people make effort for the love of God. I'll block the one/s who are just wanting one thing which I'm not it's like change location number you name it, alot of us humans are worried need alot of inner healing I'm in the healing process. Personally alot of changes for humans to work on for the good it's not about sleeping around with everything we see hell no. Understanding is a big thing for human everyone has a voice & we all gotta listen to each other, not what we think we should listen to & quick response. (edited)
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Ree
2mo
ENTP
Libra
For me .. If you busy ..let me know from the first.. am the person who always bluntly about this, I will ask for the first...because I don't like judge without proof why they late reply, and am the person who can give that person space for him/her because am not active on private chat, except they important to me.. Butttt...if he on relationship with me, and he doing that, I willl be silently as he give to me...
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Craig
2mo
INTJ
Sagittarius
I try not to delete convos. I've had chat partners with unreliable internet or app problems, plus busy lives. So I try to give them the benefit of doubt that they'll reply when they can. At the same time, if someone goes silent, I don't dwell on that person. I move on, but I leave the conversation open, just in case.
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