Went on my second Boo date tonight, lady was going to be 30 minutes late without communicating that, so I bounced ahah. Respect and communication are very important to me, so this did not work. What would you have done?

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💯 At the minimum, tell me you're running late else I'm out

Mademoiselle Amy

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how would you know she’s going to be late without tell you? im just a bit confuse. well, i’ll wait max 30mins i think.

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I would leave. Time should not be wasted.

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Gemini

Oh no. Most people that know me know that I hate tardiness. Punctuality connotes your respect for people and time. If you can't even at least inform me on what's going on why you're late... I'm out, ciao!

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Ouch, punctuatity is one of my most strict boundaries, so I would left the place🤣🤣🤣

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Go Ryan!!! You did well and if roles were reversed, you would never heard the end of it so you did well.

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Leaving that lady hanging was the perfect move. You value your time, and you deserve someone who can show up and communicate like an adult. You set the standard, and you stick to it like a boss. If she couldn't be bothered to let you know about her tardiness, she ain't worth your time.

Alona

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I would have just cried

Sha

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Cancer

First date he was gonna be 20 min late without communication. I called him & told him do not show up & good day. Hung up. He texted he was very sorry & if we could reschedule for the next day. I called him back, expressed tardiness is a pet peeve. He understood. We've been dating for almost two months & he's not late 😆😆😆

Brian

ISTJ

Pisces

I’ll wait 15-20 for a first date and send a text after. If no response, then I’m leaving. Usually if someone responds,they should be somewhat apologetic and give an ETA. Just communicate and be upfront, if your gonna be late that’s fine, just say so

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I always confirm they are showing about an hour before... (depending on travel time... hour or travel ride, whichever is more)

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Why go on dates for other people vs just for yourself? Being able to enjoy your own date alone just means there's no negative feeling about being ghosted. Their loss, imma still enjoy my food! Might even get ice cream on the way home!

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💯 At the minimum, tell me you're running late else I'm out

how would you know she’s going to be late without tell you? im just a bit confuse. well, i’ll wait max 30mins i think.

I would leave. Time should not be wasted.

Oh no. Most people that know me know that I hate tardiness. Punctuality connotes your respect for people and time. If you can't even at least inform me on what's going on why you're late... I'm out, ciao!

Ouch, punctuatity is one of my most strict boundaries, so I would left the place🤣🤣🤣

Go Ryan!!! You did well and if roles were reversed, you would never heard the end of it so you did well.

Leaving that lady hanging was the perfect move. You value your time, and you deserve someone who can show up and communicate like an adult. You set the standard, and you stick to it like a boss. If she couldn't be bothered to let you know about her tardiness, she ain't worth your time.

I would have just cried

I’ll wait 15-20 for a first date and send a text after. If no response, then I’m leaving. Usually if someone responds,they should be somewhat apologetic and give an ETA. Just communicate and be upfront, if your gonna be late that’s fine, just say so

I always confirm they are showing about an hour before... (depending on travel time... hour or travel ride, whichever is more)

Why go on dates for other people vs just for yourself? Being able to enjoy your own date alone just means there's no negative feeling about being ghosted. Their loss, imma still enjoy my food! Might even get ice cream on the way home!

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