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Universes
Posted Thursday, September 12, 2024
4mo
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Some perspective
This is mainly for those who identify as cismen. I understand many of you are feeling lonely, and are having a hard time getting matches. Statistically, cismen are far less likely to get matches and likes. In general there is a loneliness epidemic.However, I think it's important to keep a few things in mind. Ciswomen don't have it any easier. Historically, men have preyed on and objectified women for centuries. Being treated in such a way by a stronger sex (On average) for so many generations is going to have lasting effects. If you were in their shoes, you would be hesitant to reach out or engage too. You take a huge risk. Be patient and empathetic. Learn to love yourself. Focus on building yourself up and taking care of yourself. You would be amazed at how far some self care and love would take you. Treat and think of women as people. If you focus on the person, rather than the goal or your desires, I promise it will take you farther than seeing dating as a game you need to win. Be confident and learn to handle rejection. Every woman has a story of a guy going apeshit after being turned down. Don't be that guy. We all have preferences. Like there are people who don't meet your preferences, you won't meet everyone's, and that's okay.
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