A tendancy I've noticed on many profiles and in many conversations is the need to include phrases such as "must like dogs", or "must love travel". There's a comparatively low ratio of people looking for things like kindness, supportiveness or reliablility. I don't think someone else having the same interests is nearly as 1) important and 2) accurate. I'd never want to assume the person I'd like to spend a long time with would have specific interests. I'd much rather we agree with bigger picture items, or have philosophies that are aligned. You can love bubble tea as much as you want; it's something that makes you, you. It's not necessary however, to have that love reflected back by a potential partner. Just thinking/food for thought. Have a good night :3

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Simen André

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Some things are just a given (like kindness, supportiveness, reliability and more) because that's normal in relationships. Liking dogs because you have a dog, loving to travel since you travel a lot etc is a good way to find people that share your interests. Imagine getting together with someone who hates dogs when you have a dog or someone who never travels so you always have to travel solo and not be able to make memories. These things are not the same as saying you love bubble tea, coffee, pizza, burgers or whatever.

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Patricia

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Patricia

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Kea

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I personally love dark chocolate truffles! But all chocolates are allllll soooo gooood! #chocolate #food #sweets #dating #relationshipadvice What's your favorite chocolate?

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Wait for a match or message first

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so uh...

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