In my experience, it’s 99% of women messaging ‘Hey’ as an opener, which can get very repetitive. Bumble gives women the power of messaging first, and that’s their main opener. Then it ends up me being the one to lead the conversation. I’m sure most ladies would prefer guys to message something other than ‘hey’ majority of the time too right? But I really do admire when they message something other than ‘hey’, like they say something about my profile, bio, give a compliment or pickup line. Those type of women, I actually end up getting far with.

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It was very shallow, like something made for teenagers.

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I gave up on Bumble because they wouldn't even say hey, they would just let the timer run out with no messages.

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I never got to messages. Mostly, it showed me profiles with zero common interests, which I always swiped left on - what would we even talk about? The occasional person who had swiped right on me would be revealed only upon my rejecting her. And then, the app started showing me only a few profiles before switching to an undismissable ad for some feature or other, like "send a message!" (show me profiles that I would like to message!) or "try our 3-minute speed dating!" (what would I do with three minutes? I can hardly formulate a reply in that time) - I uninstalled after about four weeks.

Eddie

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Its been years since I used bumble. I do remember that feature where the woman has to message first. I didnt spend a lot of time swiping on it. Usually if I start dating some woman I delete all the dating apps on my phone. And around the time I used bumble I met a chick while out. So I ended up deleting bumble before I really had the chance to experience it. But that sounds difficult to use to date someone. And if women only messaged hey to me I would probably not really push the conversation too much lol.

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