Anybody else get a match with someone, and as you get to know them, it is like they're literally perfect for you--but then even when first impressions seem to go well, they just aren't interested? I feel as though an opportunity like that might come once in a lifetime, but I came across it. Now that I know she isn't interested, it just really knocks the wind out of my sails, to the point where I feel like I may never get that chance again. Any dating veterans got advice on how to stay motivated? 😕

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You roll with the punches, turn the pain to self-love and fuel for self-improvement. Love yourself aggressively. That's my approach anyway. Perhaps its radical, but it's given me the confidence I need to pursue relations with potential matches more fearlessly.

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Just keep going. Pretty much it. Don't stay stuck in one spot, trying to think of ways to fix it or change it's course. A lot less stress if you just accept the outcome and move on. Focus on what's most important you want out of a relationship. That way, they either accept that and continue or don't and you move on.

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