Is it unmanly to not be possible to stomach and tolerate the smell of cigarette and cannabis smoke and for it to be to the extent where it's not possible to enter inside of a building or go towards or near a area or spot that smells of cigarettes or cannabis smoke or stand anywhere next to or near people when they are smoking and to have to cross the road or walk back or to another opposite in the direction you came from and walk through a different direction the moment a person or some people walk towards me with a cigarette or spliff smoking or are lighting up their cigarette or spliff while they are walking towards my direction? I was not born with this problem with my nose that caused my adversion intolerance to the smell of cigarettes and cannabis smoke, this problem with my nose happened at age 14 that I firmly suspect was caused from brain injury or a broken nose, throughout my entire childhood before age 14 I have had countless of head bangs due to accidents through clumisiness of banging my head and heavy objects falling on my head and I have been beaten up countless of times in my face at school and at youth clubs, so I suspect this problem with my nose that is responsible for me being adverse and intolerant to the smell of cigarette and cannabis smoke is because of brain injury or a broken nose, before age 14 the smell of cigarette and cannabis smoke never bothered me and I was always around it and was always able to tolerate it. Is it my fault this problem with my nose happened that caused me to become adverse and intolerant to the smell of cigarettes and cannabis smoke from age 14 and has affected me all these years up to now throughout the whole time and is still endless is this problem with my nose my fault? Do I need to man up? Is it true what everyone in Nottingham has always deemed me as and feels about me? That I am a weirdo, boring, a freak, a wimp, loser and failure? Who's the problem me or the city? (edited)

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