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Romance & Masculinity

As I talk big game in my yet-to-be-finished Bio, I thought I'd best provide a real-life example of what Romance and Masculinity mean to me and the role they play in my life. The point I am hoping to get across is that, for me, romance, to be a romantic, is a way of life, connected directly with… (edited) read more

Is it okay for a man to cry?

People still ask whether men should cry. My answer is simple: yes. A man who can cry isn’t weak. He’s emotionally alive. The old idea that masculinity means suppressing every emotion has done more harm than good. It has taught generations of men to suffer in silence, confuse vulnerability with… read more

Bit of a vent

I've had a few comments in DMs from women about the fact I look somewhat effeminate, especially with the long hair. I'd like to think there are women that are comfortable with all kinds of masculinity, but these comments make me less sure. Especially since most of my posts receive almost entirely… read more

My type of man

Something about quiet masculinity just hits different. No performance, no peacocking, just presence.

Christian men where you at?

Christian men who lead with love, security, and emotional maturity, where you at? If loving your partner doesn’t threaten your masculinity, we’ll get along just fine. Black men first in line 😌

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A man who thinks his strength is measured by his ability to dominate, diminish, or emotionally drain a woman has completely misunderstood what it means to be strong. True masculinity isn’t found in a loud voice or a heavy hand; it is found in the absolute, immovable choice to be a sanctuary, a… read more

A man 🥸

A man should always be the one to take the initiative in everything he should initiate reconciliation, initiate conversation, initiate affection, and even take the lead when it comes to expressing his opinion... You will never find a woman who truly loves a man who neglects her, acts arrogant or… read more

Fellas, I don’t know who needs to hear this, but masculinity is not measured by the loudness of your car’s exhaust 😭🥀

Femininity embracement

Always embrace you’re femininity or masculinity It’s in our ancestry dna girl yes u can cry over a ice cream and be moody

A message to every man: if you think a woman is just a body..

Be sure that your masculinity is just a name.

As someone who’s 165 cm (5’5”), this hits close to home.

It’s not the preference that hurts. Everyone is free to be attracted to whoever they want. What hurts is being told that because you aren’t 180 cm, you’re somehow “less of a man.” Imagine having your masculinity judged by a number you had zero control over before you were even born. I’ve had… read more

Messages

I got tons of messages which I don't reply and anothers which I reply, but damn it... So fragile masculinity that can't understand truth like I know or I don't care things... Or what is already on my bio and assume things that I DON'T WANT TO EXPLAIN THEN LESS REPEAT IT! And even then block me 😆… read more

Masculinity, Femininity, and Changing Gender Roles

I would like to discuss a topic that is often controversial: the relationship between masculinity, femininity, and gender roles. As a member of Gen Z, I have watched traditional expectations for men and women change significantly. Men are increasingly encouraged to be emotionally open, caring, and… read more

Message your answer or your opinion.

Guys, I have a question. If you’re in a relationship, do you find it insulting to your masculinity when your girlfriend doesn’t accept your help or gifts, whether material things or money? What do you really prefer a woman who looks like she’s after money, or a simple woman who’s already happy even… read more

We’re All Just Trying to Come Home to Ourselves

Men taught to be strong. Women taught to be small. Both of us aching for connection but terrified to be seen. We’ve all inherited stories about what it means to be worthy, desirable, or “enough.” This is me peeling those layers back to look at how toxic masculinity, purity culture, and performance… read more

Masters of the Universe

It was really a story about a boys conflict with masculinity more than anything else. A showcase of his struggle from bumbling man-child to champion of his own destiny. If it wasn't for the failure of the script I might've thoroughly enjoyed it, but the dialogue felt jaded and lackluster. There was… read more

Is it real?

A lot of people talk about masculinity and femininity, but is it real? If you think it's real what would you say proves it's not just a social construct?

Beautifully spoken 😍 Real love doesn’t keep receipts.

I was struck by Albert Martinez’s humility when he said: “Sa relasyon, tayong mga lalaki talaga dapat mag-adjust. Kasi tayo yung nanggulo, tayo yung pumasok sa buhay nila. Wala tayong karapatan magreklamo lalo na’t marami nang nasakripisyo.” Real love doesn’t keep receipts. Real love remembers… read more

This man is carrying Korea's masculinity

Not All Men Are the Villain

Not every man is bad but in a world where loud narratives spread faster than truth, a few wrong actions often paint all with the same brush. Real strength isn’t in blaming an entire gender it’s in understanding individuals. Because just like there are men who hurt, there are men who heal, support,… read more

Th Ho

True masculinity is about being a pillar of support, a voice for the silent, and a shield for those he loves

Masculinity VS Vulnerability

Hey everyone, I have a question. And I ask this from the male perspective because I’m still working on my own emotional intelligence and male dominated upbringing. I just got out of a 6 year relationship with my girlfriend and being honest, everyday has sucked since. She was the only one I felt… read more

The same root

Like everything in the world, there is a root from which everything comes. The enduring war recruitment posters of different countries are no exception. Uncle Sam in the USA, the Russian White Army recruitment poster, and the Russian Red Army recruitment poster all imitated their "older brother" —… read more

Thought of the Day

Remember guys, true masculinity is kissing your kinsman on the forehead after he dies protecting two troublesome hobbits from a horde of orcs.

What is your definition of "being a man?"

What is your idea of masculinity?

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Accountability Masculinity isn’t about being the loudest, toughest, or most dominant man in the room. True masculinity is having the courage to be accountable for your actions, your responsibilities, and the people who depend on you. The opposite of masculinity isn’t weakness—it’s the refusal to… read more

[WOMEN STRENGTH DEFINED CLEARLY]

Reality Is Merciless It does not negotiate confusion, fantasy or intention—it deliver consequences with the patience of the rock and precision of a blade. Nature Specializes Utility The axe breaks structure. The crowbar exploits leverage. Neither effective by imitation—but utility of… read more

The true meaning of "Masculinity"

The most empowering form of masculinity lies in knowing when to wield bold authority, as Aragorn does, and when to offer gentle support, like Samwise – a dynamic balance that unlocks true potential.

“Why do I only seem to attract men?”

For any guy who has ever wondered this: It doesn’t necessarily mean you’re unattractive. It may simply mean that the qualities people find attractive in you aren’t being communicated to women in a clearly romantic way. I’m under 170 cm, fairly effeminate, quite passive, and I care about fashion,… read more

The vanilla icecream of femininity as opposed to the chewing gum of masculinity

After a long time of personal encounters, I have come to discover that to a very large extent, people tend to believe WOMEN MORE easily when they tell stories, whether true or false. But the story of a MAN even in honesty will ALWAYS go through rigorous background checks for verification. With this… read more

Seeking feedback. Part of a assignment for school based on my story of recovery

After a few months of butting heads, neither of us could take it anymore, so I decided I was leaving, but what now? Homeless shelters are full of drugs. I don’t want to go back to the streets, so I had to swallow my pride and call my grandmother. At first, nothing had changed, but as time slowly… read more