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Posted Saturday, July 27, 2024
3mo
ISFJ
Capricorn
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I’ve been reflecting on something that’s been on my mind lately. It’s about the constant chatter on profiles about wanting loyalty and a loyal partner. Don’t get me wrong, loyalty is crucial in any relationship. But I’ve noticed a pattern that I think we need to talk about. 🌟 It seems like the standards have skyrocketed. Many girls say they want loyalty, but it often comes with a preference for guys who are "cute," love to show off, and have those DSLR-clicked hot images. 📸 But let’s pause and think for a moment. If a guy is extremely model-like and constantly in the spotlight, won’t he have a lot of girls vying for his attention? 🌹 This kind of attention can lead to situationships, heartbreaks, and infidelity. 💔 Why? Because he has too many options and might not value the relationship as much. 😔 Why not consider someone with a good heart instead of just looks? 💖 Someone who is simple in nature, who can treat you like a princess 👸 because you are the only one in his life. Someone who listens to your thoughts and supports you just like your parents do. 👫 It’s not about lowering standards but rather about understanding what truly matters in a relationship. Let’s value kindness, genuine care, and emotional support over superficial qualities. 🌈 No offense to anyone, just sharing my thoughts. What do you all think? 😊 Thanks for your time, Enjoy your Day ✨✨ #relationship #relationshipadvice #Queens #everyone #justathought #romance #friend #love #intellectual
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Mariann
3mo
ENFJ
Capricorn
Great observation sir...character, value and moral are far more important than the superficial attributes of a person that will fade eventualy. Agree on you sir, love it!!!🙏🌷😊♥️
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Lorein
3mo
ENFP
Aries
Where is the "pattern" coming from that you notice, that we need to talk about? ... And your paragraphs are not really questions? More if you just stating something that you don't actually KNOW. But everyone is entitled to their own opinion. But uhm I don't even know. I forgot what is even being asked. We say we want loyalty, but we like "cute" dudes? And if they are "cute" that means their fboys? I don't understand. Lol, but love all the emojis and perfect language, almost like it's unreal
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Mk
3mo
INFJ
This was well stated and very accurate. All of us should really reconsider. Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us.
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Gee
3mo
ISFP
Cancer
Yes I agree, thank you
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Sam
3mo
ESFP
Scorpio
Well said man🙌
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Pranav
3mo
INTJ
Sexual attraction and cosmetic attraction. Ye rishtebaazi soudebaazi hai. Kaise tik le ? 😂🫠👍
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Mrithul
3mo
ENFP
Gemini
well said @Utpal Tripathi bro
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Sam
3mo
ESFP
Scorpio
It is actually true
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Favour
3mo
INFP
Capricorn
Same applies for woman. All man are after looks and at the end we must understand none sees characters physically so looks will hélp attract the other person
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Piyush Suryawanshi
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Pisces
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