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Posted Monday, September 5, 2022
2y
ISFJ
Leo
Can a toxic person change
I want to be with someone who can get a bit toxic and jealous at times his toxicity is the biggest deal breaker. Do you think a toxic person can change ?
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Jade
2y
INTP
They're going to have to want to.
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2y
INFP
Maybe in 10 to 15 years he will outgrow the jealousy. As far as "toxic?" That's a relatively new term that covers a lot of defects of character. I've no clue what to say about that. In your profile you are wanting g someone who is "kind, understanding, sweet and just an overall great person." The one you are asking about doesn't seem to fit the bill. You also flat out state you do not wish to be contacted by someone who is toxic. My two cents...you are young and beautiful and have so much in front of you. You can afford to be extremely picky. Don't settle. If he does change then great. But I promise you...it's not going to be by next Thursday, or by Halloween, or any other time soon. Anyway, to answer your question directly, yes. Toxic people CAN and Do change. But it takes a lot of time and effort on their part. And chances are they probably are not going to change into the Prince Charming you hope they will. ✌️
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Stian
2y
INTP
Scorpio
Of course. But it's entirely dependent on motivation for change. And it has to be genuine. The toxicity and especially the jealousy shows insecurity. So I think that part would have to be mended before their toxic and jealous behaviour can change. I think everyone can be insecure at times but how you manage or do not manage those emotions and thoughts will matter a lot. Some people are more insecure and haven't developed as much in that regard. As with anything, people are able to learn and grow.
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Collins
2y
ENFJ
Capricorn
The post is perplexing... 😕 are you trying to say you "DON'T" want to be with. (edited)
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Brain Cells Matter
2y
INTP
Libra
Lmao, that's like asking if poisoned food can be healthy for you. It's not the person that's toxic, it's their actions and the company they keep. You take those things away, as well as other reinforces for those behaviors, you modified their behavior. You take the poison out of the food, it can be nutritious again. That said while we are on the subject of psychology, people don't like being told what to do, nor do they like being manipulated. So good luck convincing them to change, just like how it ain't cost effective to purify poisoned food ✌️
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