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Posted Saturday, September 21, 2024
13h
ISTJ
Capricorn
Friendship First, Romance Later?
As a mature man, is it realistic to seek a friendship with a woman first, without the immediate pressure of romance, before developing a long-term relationship—or do hidden intentions and mistrust often complicate things? What do you think?
No, men's hidden intentions or women's doubts about men's true motives often make it impossible.
No, friendship between men and women at a mature age is a fairy tale! Time to grow up!
Yes, starting with friendship is a realistic and healthy way to build a long-term relationship.
Friendship is possible, but societal pressures and mistrust can make it challenging to sustain.
Other (please share your thoughts).
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Khaled
13h
INFJ
Leo
My friend, friendship between a man and a woman in our current era is like eating food without salt. You choose the type of relationship, and women in general, if they see you want a romantic relationship at first, they will doubt your good intentions, so it is a loop, a never-ending spiral. Therefore, the best thing is long-term relationships with one person, starting with romance and ending with friendship.
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Rachel 🦋
12h
ENFJ
Aries
although nobody seems to know how to do that, it's true that starting with a healthy friendship is the best way to form a healthy, long term relationship
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Seeta the Nosy Aunt🦝✨️
12h
ISFP
Ideally speaking, friendship is the foundation for building long lasting romantic relationships in the long run. However, human's feelings can be volatile especially when one of them catches feelings too early or too late. Men's with hidden intentions, Women's with trust issues and doubts Such elements will definitely exist, in one way or another. Complications are inevitable, hence that's where maturity comes in, to communicate their expectations transparently.
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Anthony
7h
INFJ
Taurus
No.....I strongly discourage, being friends first and then overtime form a relationship. When your intentions or motive is pursuing a woman for long term relationship, better news to communicate that. Now if you both enjoy each other's company plus both are single, and both are willing to commit to each other as partners, then it's fine to negotiate or compromise the level of trust and boundaries in exchange for each others comfort zone. If you haven't agreed to be partners and trying to go for friends first.....quickest way of friend zone or likely outcome of her losing interest in you or excuse for you or her to have opposite sex friends that'll eventually be competing (edited)
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Mirko
13h
ESFP
Sagittarius
Depends, why do you want to seek friendship with a woman?
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