Irhamna

Posted Wednesday, August 9, 2023

9mo

ENFP

Pisces

7

6

How to deal with ENFP ??

Btw, this is just a subjective answer, okay hehehe😁, I am an ENFP with the 7w6 eneagram, I think dealing with ENFP is for people who don't know ENFP too deeply, it's going to be a little bit tricky.. because of what?? ENFP from the outside does seem like a social butterfly, even though he also needs a lot of alone time, ENFPs is also sometimes moody, even though we look cheerful and funny but on the other hand we can be really serious, you know... sometimes childish but if we're in a wise mode, we can be very mature in thinking, that's why our character can look changeable to some people or it can just look like a fake even though our personality actually has 2 sides like I explained earlier.. how do you deal with an ENFP? Well.. you need to be an understanding person, then if you can talk to ENFP, don't talk about all the small talk because ENFP will get bored even though ENFPs can also have a small talk, so if you can bring deep talk it can be really good, especially with humor in it.. hehe confused right??? Same..me too🤣. The next tips, if ENFP is sad, sometimes we get cold more often and withdraw from the social environment, so you can really offer to be a friend to confide in with us, but with the record that you are enough to be a good listener without judging or even fighting fate, because there are many who did that right?? We don't really like being judged btw😭 Hehe.. if you want to give advice to ENFP, it's better to touch our feelings first, and advise us in a good way, for example, talking face to face, not in front of public as it will make ENFPs feel bullied..😭 If we dont want to tell you, don't force because it could be that we need time alone to reflect or isn't ready yet or maybe we're not comfortable talking to you😭 be patient...😁. Btw, ENFPs are also easily happy with simple things, you know, for example, if you pay attention as little as buying our favorite ice cream, we are already very happy, just going for a walk on a motorbike and then sitting on the beach while eating fried food, we are already very happy. Someone brought one burger but I can immediately get excited again, it's that easy.. 😁😁 Furthermore, the average ENFP is free-spirited, imaginative and enthusiastic.. don't be restrained.. OMG I as an ENFP don't really like being held captive😭, my motto is "never limit someone's imagination because of your limited imagination". Apart from that, we also want the people around us to accept us, who sometimes have a lot of social space, yeah, even though the ones who can really be considered friends can be counted on the fingers... but yeah, that's the point, let us explore..., but don't get me wrong... ENFP also need to be reminded which ones are good and which are bad but with the notes above there are procedures, heheh😁. moreover we like to forget schedules and then like to be distracted too😌. After knowing what ENFPs need from someone... now, you know what to do to deal with ENFPs...?? Hehehe btw I typed too long..sorry for that🤣