Frustrating Community

Anyone else value and enjoy mockery genralization humor to cope with frustrations?

I find that making a mockery of frustrating patterns has me taking them less serious and relaxing more when annoyed at "formed assocations". Some may call it discriminatory humor or mocking, but I myself often see it as making fun of the pattern itself and mocking the absurdity of it (regardless... read more

Sometimes I feel too drained to reply😏😏A lot of people don’t know what they want, and it’s frustrating when they don’t even read my bio😹

Being the “bigger person” is exhausting.

Why do I have to deal with some people’s projections and let things be? I hate being told to be the “bigger person” I find it very frustrating to hear that and tbh? sometimes it feels very dismissive. But then my logical side interferes. Okay, I give them a reaction, then what? I might be... read more

Dissociation

Addiction. It's unbelievably difficult for me to stop dissociating. From reading, movies, to stress, and worry, daydreaming, shopping, there's always things to detach from the real world. It's become my normal, that i never feel at home in my body. It's frustrating, but i know i can start to... read more

Why therapists “pretend” not to understand

In therapy, there are moments where it honestly feels like the therapist is completely missing the point. You say something pretty clear, and they come back with a weird reformulation or a question that seems totally off, they even act like they don’t get something that feels obvious to you From... read more

Myself

Why do I feel like the guy that's never the first pick? I have swiped right on almost 1000 profiles and yet nothing. I've sent 174 ladies messages and nothing. I just don't understand. This is frustrating 😔