Aislyn
Aislyn

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Calling all men!

How would you as a man feel about receiving flowers from a woman?

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Ivan

Ivan

2y

INTJ

Aries

5
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Provided I was still alive, I'd be hungry for more. Because flowers are low on calories.

Provided I was still alive, I'd be hungry for more. Because flowers are low on calories.

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Marco

Marco

2y

ENTJ

Capricorn

6
5

If it's from the one I love probably cry from happiness, if it's from a friend I'll be very happy

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Ash

Ash

2y

ENFJ

Scorpio

It will be a new experience. An awesome one at that. Most men will reiceve flowers for the first time on their funeral.

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Gerald

Gerald

2y

ENFJ

Scorpio

You know what, that would be nice. Though we get confused, so if you don't bring a pot, you may find them sitting in a previously empty whiskey bottle now filled with water at home with the label torn off... and only one or three at best may fit in the narrow neck :) (edited)

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Marshall

Marshall

2y

INTP

8
9

Wonderful! It's a greeting gesture out of cultural upbringing. Gender has the least to do with it, in my view.

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Michael

Michael

2y

INTP

Sagittarius

Flattered.... I used to work at a bank with mostly woman. Most of the time when the girls got sent flowers, it was because the boyfriend was in the doghouse for whatever reason. Regardless, the girls would throw them away, that is until I said I would take them. I must have regifted flowers to my girlfriend a dozen times. Everytime a girl would get flowers they didn't want, they would give them to me. Lol

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Lj

Lj

2y

INTJ

Scorpio

5
4

You have to be a celebrity for that

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Christian

Christian

2y

ESTJ

Gemini

Denial because 9/10 we are the gift givers in most cases so a change of pace would definitely catch me off guard and would be genuinely appreciated because it almost never happens in my opinion.

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Logan Schenk

Logan Schenk

2y

INTJ

Aries

Nice, its basically a gesture that shows how they like the guy and flipping the script on how women don't usually do this

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Will

Will

2y

ENTJ

Pisces

9
1

It's nice to receive anything really. It's the thought that counts. As long as you put in effort that's all that matters. Btw who doesn't love flowers lol.

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Liam Collidge-Enright

Liam Collidge-Enright

2y

INTP

Aries

6
5

That would be adorable ^_^

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Shruti Shovan Das

Shruti Shovan Das

2y

ENFP

Virgo

1
2

It will be really surprising! But it'll really be a very heartwarming gesture for us❤️

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Harry

Harry

2y

INTP

Sagittarius

Dayum, that'd be nice, free flower to decorate my house

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Colby

Colby

2y

INTP

Capricorn

I have army crawled into strangers front yards before daylight to steal a small amount of the flowers they had growing so I could make an anniversary bouquet... no lie. And I have no regrets! Was worth it for that woman. I would be flattered and honored to have someone reciprocate the action that men are supposed to naturally just do for any reason or no and not get hardly any credit for effort expended. I told her years later where those flowers came from.

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Joao

Joao

2y

INTJ

Leo

5
4

Pretty flattered. Maybe a little cringe if they expected a big emotional reaction

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Dakota gilson

Dakota gilson

2y

INTP

Cancer

I wouldn't mind it

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Adrian

Adrian

2y

INFP

Aries

9
8

Flattered 😁 I (almost) never receive gifts

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Rashar

Rashar

2y

INFP

Aquarius

Over the moon

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Ian

Ian

2y

INTP

Sagittarius

6
5

That would be cool

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Austin

Austin

2y

INFJ

Aries

4
5

Flowers are badass

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Ramesh

Ramesh

2y

ISTP

3
4

I never experienced that. It would be like a dream...

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Jackson

Jackson

2y

INFP

Libra

9
1

AMAZING omg if a girl gives me flowers I'm head over heels

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𝖅𝖊𝖗𝖔

2y

INFP

Aquarius

8
7

I love flowers!

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Rahul

Rahul

2y

ISFJ

Pisces

8
7

I'd love the thought but wouldn't know what to do with a bunch of flowers, i think a single rose would do because we can just keep it in our front pocket

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Ahmed

Ahmed

2y

INFJ

Libra

2
3

Would be delighted

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Thatoneguy

Thatoneguy

2y

INFP

Gemini

Hell yeah

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Hunter

Hunter

2y

INFP

Leo

6
7

Surprised but happy, no one has given me flowers but I imagine it would be nice.

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Michael

Michael

2y

INFP

Taurus

4
5

Absolutely. Why not. Flowers are nice and like people are saying here, it's the thought that counts. Also they smell and look lovely.

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Veeresh

Veeresh

2y

INFP

Cancer

2
3

Protect her last breath

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Eh

Eh

2y

INTJ

Pisces

The hell imma do with flowers? I'd put one in her hair, give um back to her. Just having her around and In my life is a gift

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Austin

Austin

2y

ISTJ

Taurus

What should I say I feel special? Their flowers they'll die in a week at most and as for what I'll feel it would be nothing because just getting flowers for someone else doesn't mean anything

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Rich

Rich

2y

ENTP

Taurus

Nothing wrong with it, I don't have the best green thumb lol

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DaShawn Little

DaShawn Little

2y

ENFP

Capricorn

I honestly wouldn't mind as I don't mind at all!

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Jason

Jason

2y

INTJ

Aquarius

2
1

Ita a genuine surprise, me personally I like receiving flowers if you study the language of lowers it's even better because each flower has its own meaning combined they make a message 😊

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Hakan

Hakan

2y

ENFJ

Capricorn

I've never bought flowers before....

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Harley

Harley

2y

ENFJ

Virgo

3
4

Due to society conditioning . I would be confused. As men rarely never get compliments, acknowledgement and rarer still gifts.

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