I’m always surprised when I hear people talking about using dating apps, they mention any period they’re on it and being disappointed it takes so long to find a match they actually like I’m not surprised by their disappointment but I’m always surprised by them being in some kind of hurry like they have no time to waste being single Why do people hate being single so much, do you dislike your own company so much? This is the whole reason relationships don’t last, if you don’t like being with yourself then why would someone else? Start liking your alone time instead of rushing to the next person who’ll disappoint you all over again #relationshipadvice #mentalhealth #openminded (edited)

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INFJ

Capricorn

I like my own company a lot that I can't start dating 😂

Kyle

INFP

Aries

The issue is it takes months even a year to get a match, this is the issue. Don't mind being in my own company, just this world has made it harder to date.

Ben

ISTP

Scorpio

I like being single so much that I find the longer I’m single the more difficult I find it wanting to get into a relationship. I mean I’ll date women but when it comes time to actually choose to be with one woman I’m like nah I’m good.🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️😉🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Jake

ENTJ

Libra

But... That's the reason we downloaded and are trying to put ourselves out here, right? Is it really too much to expect to make SOME kind of connection towards a date on a dating app? Isn't that the point?

Frank

ENFP

Sagittarius

The greatest exchange of currency is attention. People seek it, crave it and love it. I could careless about having a relationship, i only care for connections in all forms with people in different walks of life.

James

INTP

Scorpio

Nobody is on a dating app so they can stay single.

Michael

INTP

Sagittarius

Very impressive I must say. You said it perfect and agree 100%. Your awesome 😘

Raul

INTJ

Virgo

What good is all this without someone to share it with, I love life as it is but I think about all the fun it would be to have someone to enjoy it with.

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ISFJ

Leo

I believe that most folks are running after the version of a partner they want. Hardly anyone has the patience to look and think of what they need to become to deserve that someone. A few make that happen by working on themselves and understanding what they deserve. Rest just keep chasing the universally assumed truth which is, we all should have a partner to live and grow old with when the reality is within us. Peace!

Gautam

INTJ

Okay I know what you saying that love yourself spending time in things that you like ....but in a person life their comes a time that they can not explain to others not to the family members or friends ....in time like this they desperately trying to find someone new who will try to understand them take liking to them , be there for them that's why they seem desparate to others but you don't know them what they are going through..... This type of problem mainly found among the quiet people who can't openly share their problems with others.

🎼《Zade》

INTP

FACTS !!! Buuuut in some cases, FOR ME it's almost opposite, like how do you NOT like me ? I'm rad af 😂 Their loss though, that's my mindset until the casket drops. Quality over Quantity anyway 😅🤷🏻‍♂️ In the end, everyone has different ways of dealing with things, some better than others. We just gotta be grateful we see the bigger picture 🫡

Saba

ENTJ

Exactly that's why I canceled a lot of guy To me it looks like they were in rush (for different reason not only this )and don't give me time to think, to react!

Dolan

INTJ

Virgo

Single rocks!!!

Kaleo

ENTP

Sagittarius

One day I’ll find the hermit partner of my dreams lol🖤

INFJ

Spitting facts

Donnielle

ISFJ

Aquarius

I am definitely growing father away from people. I love who I am, what I have achieved and learned and tolerate my failures hoping for growth in those areas to complete my process. Soon I’ll be alone in the woods. My happiest place.

Edgar

INTJ

Cancer

Because people age. Aging is associated with a rapid decrease in value and desirability. Hence, most are in a rush to make the most of the value they have now.

Chris

INFP

Virgo

Been single 2 years and love it

Carlos

INTP

Sagittarius

Say it louder for the people in the back

Duane

INFJ

Capricorn

Hey man I'm not getting any younger and I need someone to impress with my grocery-carrying skills.

Winston

INFP

Leo

Single is the only status I have known, I have never been on a date before and have been using dating apps for 6 years. I have accepted that most women don't consider me attractive. Tbh I'm actually content and though its ironic that this is a dating app I just wanna make more friends on here ✌️☺️

Jose

INTJ

Capricorn

Just because you run doesn’t make the destination any shorter. I do think people mortality plays a role in their fears, but I do agree with your statement.

Victory

ISFJ

Virgo

Yeah you can of making sense

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