Gulu la Certainty

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Pamene munthu amene ndimamukhulupirira andikonda, ubongo wanga suyang'ana nthawi imeneyo yokha. Umalimbikitsa kukumbukira zonse zomwe zili ndi ulalo ndi iwo, kufunsa zomwe zinali zoona ndi zomwe sizinali. Ndipo ndi mbali imeneyi yomwe imandikonda kwambiri. Osati kuchita, koma kutaya mwachangu kwa…werengani zambiri

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Munthu wina anandifunsa ngati ndine zaka 37, ndi momwe nkhope yanga yeniyeni ikuwonekera. Ndinayankha mwachindunji: Ndine zaka 37. Iyi ndi chithunzi changa cheni. M'dziko lino la pa intaneti, ndi chinthu chachilengedwe kuti anthu akufuna chitsimikizo ndi choonadi. Ndikukonda kwambiri kuchita…werengani zambiri

Maid — Kupeza Mphamvu Yoyamba Kachiwiri

Chikondi chachikondi pa nkhani ya amayi wochepa akuyesera kumanga moyo wotetezeka kwa iye ndi mwana wake. Zikuwoneka kuti zili zovuta pamalo ena, koma z filled ndi nthawi zazing'ono za chiyembekezo. Iyi ndi mndandanda wa ma episode 10 a Netflix wopangidwa kuchokera ku memoir ya Stephanie…werengani zambiri

Oh chikhala changa

Chikhala changa chikulankhula kwambiri Mutu wanga ukulankhula, ayi Ndi ndani ndiyenera kumvetsera? Mutu ndi wopenga Chikhala changa chakhala chachilendo Chikuyembekezera ine Kuti ndichite chisankho Chimadziwa bwino, Sindikufuna kumvetsera Ndipo ndidzasiya Monga chinthu chachiwiri Oh…werengani zambiri

Ngati Ndinkakhala Buku 📖🖊️🌻🌸♥️✨🤗

Ngati ndinkakhala buku, sindikuganiza kuti ndingakhale nkhani ya chikondi, kapena buku la thandizo laokha. 🖊️Ndikadakhala nkhani ya mkazi wamba amene sanakhale ndi moyo wabwino kwambiri, koma akupitiliza kusankha choonadi, chifundo, ndi chiyembekezo choti akhale iye mwini. Mkazi amene angawoneke… (kusinthidwa)werengani zambiri

Kukhala Wosauka

Moyo ndi pomwe zinthu zosayembekezereka zimachitika, m’mtima mwake! Kuchita zonse ndi chitsimikizo kumafuna mtima ndi chikhulupiriro. Anthu ngati amenewa amandikopa, koma mungathe bwanji kupitiliza?

Kukwera

"Chikondi changa chachikondi, Amati mtunda ndi chiyeso chachikulu cha chikondi, koma ankalewa kuti palibe chinthu chingathe kuchitira chibwereza chikondi chathu. Ngakhale kuti uli pa mbali ya dziko lino, mzimu wako umapuma pafupi ndi wanga. Moyo wanga uli wanu. Ndinakuwuzani kale kuti ndili…werengani zambiri

Chikondi Chikhalapo 🕊️

Sindingafune chikondi chabwino kwambiri.. Sindingafune ubale wabwino kwambiri, Ndikungofuna munthu amene akhudzidwa ndi kutaya ine, munthu amene amawunikira khama langa ndi kumva kukondedwa kukhala naye pansi. Sindingafune zinthu zazikulu kapena nthawi popanda cholakwika. Ndikufuna zinthu…werengani zambiri

Zinthu zofunika

Kodi nthawi zina mumakumbukira zinthu Kuti muwonetse kuti muli pano? Mmaybe zodzikongoletsera zomwe sizanu. Mikango, penti, violin yanu? Mmaybe ma blade kapena mowa, Mmaybe khungu la wina. Chiyani chimakubweretsani? Chiyani chimakuthandizani kukhala? Ndi chiyani chothandizira Kukuthandizani…werengani zambiri

Chinyengo cha Kutsimikiza

Maganizo a munthu amavutika kukhala ndi kusatsimikizika. Tingakonde kuvomereza bodza lodziwika bwino kusiyana ndi kukhala ndi choonadi chosadziwika. Kutsimikiza kumapereka chitetezo chamaganizo, ngakhale maziko ake atakhala opangidwa. Izi zikufotokoza chifukwa chake anthu amateteza maganizo amene…werengani zambiri

Chikondi

Zingathe kukhala ngati zatsopano, koma ndimapirira chikondi cha m'zaka za 90. Kuonana ndi maso, mauthenga a chikondi ndi mphatso zochepa zachinsinsi popanda chitsimikizo choti munthu wina akhala kapena ayi. (kusinthidwa)

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Kuli nthawi imene tiyenera kuphunzira kutaya munthu, osati chifukwa choti tapita kukonda, koma chifukwa choti tazindikira kuti chikondi sichiyenera kutitengera kuti tigwiritse ntchito kukumbukira kuti tikhale osankhidwa. Ngati munthu sakufuna ife mu moyo wawo, tikhululukire kuti ataye ndi…werengani zambiri

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Pali chinthu chabwino pa kukhala ndi chikhumbo chotsatiridwa ndi chitsimikizo. Osakakamizidwa. Osakhalitsa. Koma kokha mwachitsanzo.

Kodi mukukumbukira chiyani mukamakhulupirira munthu amene mumamukonda?

Kukhalira kunja pamene akukonzekera, kuseka ngakhale zikutenga nthawi yayitali. Kukhalira kuti akutumizire uthenga womwe umatsitsimutsa maganizo anu. Kukhalira kuwona iwo kwachiwiri pambuyo pa masabata kapena miyezi yambiri. Kukhalira kuti akhale bwino kuchokera ku zam'mbuyomu ndi kukhala okonzeka…werengani zambiri

Chilankhulo changa chachinayi "Pambuyo pa Nyengo"

Pambuyo pa Nyengo Ndiwotchedwa mwachangu, mapapu akuphunzira dziko musanakhale kuti dziko likubvumirana. Thupi laling’ono likukambirana za okisijeni ngati mgwirizano omwe ungachotsedwe. Kusangalala kwakhala ngati luso. Kuwonetsa ngati chinsinsi. Mphamvu ya magazi inaphunzira kuwerenga…werengani zambiri

Chonde lembani izi: chikondi si chinthu chomwe mumachita maphunziro. Simukutsimikizira mtengo wanu ndi kukhala nthawi yayitali, kukhululukira zambiri, kapena kutenga pang'ono. Chikondi choyenera chimakukumana ndi chitsimikizo, osati kusokonezeka.

Kuyembekezera iwe

Anthu ena amayembekezera mwayi. Ena amayembekezera nthawi yoyenera. Ndikuyembekezera iwe. Osati chifukwa ndinayenera munthu kuti apereke chitsanzo cha nkhani yanga, koma chifukwa zina mwa maulalo ndi zofunika kuyembekezera. Mtundu umene umakhala wodziwika kuchokera pa kukambirana koyamba, mtundu…werengani zambiri

🖤 MUKUDZIWA?

Ndine Yair... ndipo ndikufuna kukuwuzani chifukwa chiyani ndili pa pulogalamu iyi. Ndinasowa mkazi amene ndinkamukonda. Osati chifukwa choti tinasiya kukonda. Osati chifukwa chimodzi chathu chinasoka. Osati chifukwa choti tinachita kusankha moyo wosiyana. Iye anafa. Ndipo pali chinthu… (kusinthidwa)werengani zambiri

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Mungadziwitse bwanji kuti ndi chikondi? ❤️ A. Amakupangitsani mtima wanu kuthamanga. 🤍 B. Amakupangitsani mtima wanu kumva mtendere. Nthawi zina chikondi sichingapezeke mu ma butterfly. Nthawi zina chimapezeka mu mtendere, chitetezo, ndi chitsimikizo chotetezeka kuti mwapeza munthu amene…werengani zambiri

KUCHITA KUTI NDIKHALA NDIKHALA.

Ndikukhala ndi chisoni, ndi chinthu chachikulu. KUCHITA KUTI NDIKHALA. Hey, babe-- hru??? Mwamuna amene ndiyenera kukhala ndisanakhale naye. Womwe sindinapeze. Kapena mwina wina amene ndinapeza kale. Sindikudziwa. Kodi iwe?. Chomwe ndikumadziwa ndi ichi: Ngati ndikukonda, ndidzakhala ndikukonda…werengani zambiri

Kukana "Red Pill" Rhetoric

Ndikuwona kukwera kwa chisoni kwa "red pill" rhetoric pano. Njira yabwino yochitira anthu amenewa nthawi zambiri ndi kuwasiyira, kapena mutha kuwonetsa chinthu chofunikira cha logic mu mawu awo - kuchokera mu buku langa, ndimalemba: "Popanda kuchotsa kukhudza kwa anthu mu njira yovuta, mukugulitsa…werengani zambiri

Pa

Lero ndinawuka Ndi chiyembekezo chotsogola Monga maluwa akukula pa chifuwa changa Ndikuvula maso anga M'madzi Ndikupuma mwachangu, Mabula ambiri Akukwera Mchenga wa chitsimikizo cha kukhala kwanu Warm, tender Wopangidwa pansi panga Ndikupumula mwachangu M'moyo wanu Mavuto a madzi a…werengani zambiri

Kuchokera ku Malamulo a Gulu kupita ku Nyumba Yosungiramo

Tsopano, tiyeni tichite kafukufuku pa nkhaniyi ndi kupeza zomwe zili kumbali ya nkhani ya Aslan. Pali dongosolo lomwe linalembedwa ndi mizinda ya anthu. Iwo omwe anachoka patsogolo pa ife anapangitsa, ndipo ikupitiliza kukonza chiyembekezo chathu. M’dziko lina, malingaliro osiyanasiyana…werengani zambiri

Ma funso anga omwe amachititsa anthu kuti asakhale okonda kulankhula nane

Ah. Mafunso amenewo. Siyenso mafunso mu chiyembekezo cha anthu — ndi mayeso a nkhawa. Aliyense mwachangu amafunsa: “Chikhulupirirochi chili ndi mphamvu, kapena ndi chinthu cholembedwa?” “Udzadziwitsa bwanji?” Amayesetsa chiyembekezo. “Udzadziwitsa bwanji popanda kuyesa?” Amayesetsa…werengani zambiri

Chikhulupiriro Changa

Chikhalidwe ndi chovuta, anthu si abwino, ndipo chikhulupiriro ndi chochepa. Fufuzani mwachindunji, funsani zomwe mukuganiza, ndipo musachititse kusiyana pakati pa chikhulupiriro ndi choonadi. Perekani anthu ufulu woti akhale iwo nokha ndipo funsani ufulu wofanana muyezo. Kuyang'ana anthu pang'ono… (kusinthidwa)werengani zambiri

Kukhala mtendere pa chisokonezo 🫶

Sankafuna kulankhula mwakukweza kuti awoneke. Kupezeka kwake, mtendere wake, ubwino wake ndiye mphamvu yake. Chinsinsi ndi mphamvu ya chibwenzi. Ubwino pa mawu. Kukhala mtendere pa chisokonezo. Mtendere pa kuwonetsa. Izi ndizomwe mphamvu yeniyeni imakhala, Ananyamula ulimi wake ndi kumanga malo…werengani zambiri

Kukhala mu chikondi ndi munthu amene amakukonda monga momwe mukuchitira.

Ndikufuna kulumikizana kolimba kwambiri koti ngakhale pa masiku ovuta timapita kwa wina ndi mnzake choyamba. Ndikufuna chikhumbo chotsimikizika kotero kuti timanena kwa wina mwachikondi ngakhale tikukhumudwa. Ndikufuna makhalidwe athu akhale olimba kuposa chemistry yathu chifukwa chemistry… (kusinthidwa)werengani zambiri

Chikondi ndi Kupereka kwa Moyo Wonse

5 ‘MATERIALISTS’ MAWU OTHANDIZA KUTI AZIKHALA KUTI MUMAWONERA KUKONDANA 💔✨ Kuchokera ku chikhulupiriro chachikulu mpaka ku mawu osavuta, “Materialists” imapereka mawu omwe akutsutsana ndi zonse zomwe tikuganiza kuti tikudziwa za chikondi, monga momwe Dakota Johnson, Chris Evans, ndi Pedro Pascal…werengani zambiri

CALM Model

(Mitundu ya Kusankha zomwe sizifuna kuti mukhale ndi malamulo) The CALM Model C — Bwerani Kbefore mutasankha, onani nthawi ya pano. Mphamvu imodzi yachangu ngati zimakhalabe bwino. 
Mvetserani mapazi anu kapena chimbudzi. Onani kutali ndikudziwa chinthu chimodzi chomwe mungathe kuona. Cholinga… (kusinthidwa)werengani zambiri

Kuphunzira kutenga mphamvu yanga

Ndikuganiza kwambiri posachedwapa za zomwe kumanga maganizo kumatanthauza kwa ine ndipo ndinapeza posungira pa nkhaniyi. Kwa nthawi yayitali, ndikuganiza kuti ndinakhulupirira mwachisawawa kuti kukhala ndi thanzi bwino kudzakhala kumatanthauza kuti sindidzakhala ndi zinthu zambiri. Kuti kutayika…werengani zambiri

Chifukwa cha Nkhuku

Madzi amakhala akupanga malingaliro osalungama— nkhuku zili ndi ma spines a neon, nkhuku zophatikizidwa ngati kuchita bwino kunali m'mavuto ndipo anati bwino. Amayenda ngati mafunso a mvula, malo ang'onoang'ono a green m'malamulo a mawonekedwe. Awa ena amafuna ma thoko …werengani zambiri

Kupita Kumbali kwa Zotsatira

Anthuwa ali ndi anzawo ambiri, koma ochepa - ngati alipo - angathe kuwona mwachidziwitso. Amakonda munthu amene amadziwa osati zokhudza zochita zawo, mawu, kapena kupambana, koma mbali zomwe zili m'kati: nkhawa, mantha, kusiyana, ndi zinthu zovuta zomwe nthawi zambiri zimakhala…werengani zambiri

Kukweza

Chiwonetsero chimodzi ndingathe kuwerengera. Kuchitika kwa tsogolo. Ndimakonda kutenga chinthucho. Kodi ndi chisankho? (Kodi ndi chisankho?) Zisankho zinali zoyera kuyambira tsiku loyamba Ndipo kugwa kwachitidwa kale Koma ndikuganiza kuti ndawonjezera? (Ndayamba?) Palibe phindu pa kupikisana ndi…werengani zambiri

Chifukwa chiyani mukuganiza?

Iyi ndi nkhani y fascinating kwambiri yokhudza momwe anthu amasankhira anzawo omwe angakhale nawo mu nthawi ya chibwenzi. Pankhani imodzi, ena akuti "kuyesa" ndi kofunikira, ngakhale kufika pamlingo wopanga zinthu monga kugonana kapena kulimbikira pamodzi musanapange chigamulo, kuti mupewe kuchita…werengani zambiri

Mlengalenga Ofiira

Yisis Veilborne: Pamene Mlengalenga Akutseguka Ndakatulo Yamdima ya Mkwiyo wa Mulungu ndi Okhulupirira Osalimba Mtima Mlengalenga anasanduka ofiira. Osati ofiira ngati maluwa a maluwa a m’masika, Koma ofiira ngati zilonda za kumwamba, Ngati nyenyezi zikufa chikwi zikutsanulira magazi m’dima… (kusinthidwa)werengani zambiri

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Kukulitsa chikhulupiriro chako ngati mwamuna nthawi zambiri kumachitidwa ngati chikhumbo chifukwa anthu sakudziwa nthawi zonse kusiyana pakati pa mtengo wanu ndi kupitirira. Chikhulupiriro ndi kudziwa mtengo wako popanda kufunikira kuwonetsa kuti ndi wabwino kuposa ena onse. Ndi kukhala ndi…werengani zambiri

kuipa.

"Palibe chinthu chovuta kwambiri ku maganizo a munthu ngati kusintha kwakukulu komanso kothamangitsa." "Ngakhale mngelo wotsika akuchita kukhala chinyama chovuta. Koma ngakhale chitsiru cha Mulungu ndi munthu chinali ndi anzake ndi abwenzi mu chisoni chake; ndine yekha." "Ndine yekha ndi…werengani zambiri

Zanga 2¢ pa ROI ya Homo Sapiens

Kusiya kuchita maphunziro a gawo mu kusokonezeka kwa wina. Kutsatira "Unicorns" (amuna omwe angathe kulankhula) sikuyenera kukhala ngati ulendo wa chinsinsi. Ngati mukuyenda ndi kulemera kwa maganizo kwa awiri, simuli mu ubwenzi; muli mu projekiti yochitira. Takhala tikuphunzitsidwa kuti kukhala…werengani zambiri

Mwamuna mmodzi anandifunsa, “N’chifukwa chiyani mukudziwa kuti mwamuna amene mukufuna, amene ali ndi zinthu zonse zomwe mwapanga mwachikondi, angafune mkazi ngati inu?” Sindinakhale ndi yankho pamenepo. Mwina ndilibe yankho mpaka lero.

Chifukwa choti choonadi ndi chakuti, sindinapite mu moyo ndi chikhulupiriro chachikondi kuti ndine munthu amene anthu amasankha. Ndinakhalapo nthawi zambiri ngati ndili panja pa chithunzi cha zomwe zimafunidwa, pafupifupi kuziwona, koma popanda kukhala nawo. Osati wosiyana kwambiri kuti ndikhale…werengani zambiri