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Post Title: Ndine wosakhulupirika, kapena ndikungofuna chikhulupiriro chachikulu

Ndikufuna mawu olondola pa nkhani yomwe ndikukumana nayo. Ndinakumana ndi mkazi wochokera m'dziko lomwe likukula, ndipo kulumikizana kwathu kunali kokhudza kuyambira pachiyambi. Choyambirira, pulani inali kuti akhale ndi mwayi wochoka ndikukhala nane m'dziko langa. Anavomereza, koma pamene... read more

Kuphunzira za Mtundu wa Kukhala

SECURE * Mikhalidwe Yabwino * Chikhulupiriro & Thandizo Limodzi * Kusamalira Zovuta M'njira Yoyenera ANXIOUS * Khodza Kukhala Wopanda Wina * Kufunika kwa Kukhulupirika & Kuthandiza Kwapachiyambi * Kukhala pa mnzake kuti akhale ndi mtengo DISMISSIVE AVOIDANT * Kusamalira Kukonda ndi... read more

Kukopa

IMO chinthu chofunika kwambiri chomwe mwamuna angachite ndi kuchititsa mkazi kumva kuti ali ndi chitetezo, osati kusokonezeka. 🤍 Abambo… chinthu chofunika kwambiri chomwe mkazi angachite ndi chiyani?

Ndi anthu ofunika bwanji omwe amakukhumudwitsani kwambiri? . . . Ndi ine anthu omwe ndimawauza zomwe ndimakonda kapena zomwe sindimakonda kapena zomwe ndimagwira nzeru etc ndipo amafuna kundipanga psychoanalyse ndi kutero kuti chisankho changa chimachokera pa chikhumbo china etc

Monga chitsanzo, kamodzi munthu wina anandifunsa ch flower changa chomwe ndimakonda, ndinati sunflower 🌻 ndipo iye anati mwina mukonda chifukwa cha chikhalidwe chanu chotengera etc, bwino inali kutentha magazi anga chifukwa inali ngati kutaya mtima kwa ine Munthu wotere anali kuyesa... (kusinthidwa) read more

Ndinazindikira kuti ndikufuna ubale womwe ungakhalepo kuti ukhale ubale m'malo mokhudzana mwachindunji mu ubale...

Ndikukambirana ndi munthu wochokera pa app ina amene akundiuza kuti akufuna ubale wos Serious ndipo ndikuganiza kuti tili pa cholinga chimodzimodzi. Iye ali ndi chidziwitso chokwanira, ali ndi zaka 38, ndipo ali ndi ndalama zokwanira. Tikukambirana mwachizolowezi koma ndimamva kuti pali pressure... read more