Jerah 🌻

Posted Sunday, October 29, 2023

2y

ENFJ

Capricorn

8

7

Break the cycle and learn to develop as our inner child needs to feel more secure to be in a new pattern 🤍

Parenting style impacts children's psychology, which leads to secure, anxious, or avoidant attachment. For a person who may struggle with an anxious or avoidant attachment style, it's still possible to develop a secure one as an adult. "Purposely developing a secure attachment starts with your emotional awareness of how you feel about yourself, your ability to be loved, and your ability to be safe," says Jackson. Take a good, hard look at how your current attachment style affects your relationships. The people you have close bonds with likely have the same attachment style as you. Jackson says we tend to attract people with similar attachment styles because it's familiar. Reference: Developing a secure attachment style for healthier, more loving relationships. (Laderer, A. 2022)