Admitting Community

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The apology you’re waiting for? It’s not coming. Not because they don’t know. Because admitting it would collapse the version of themselves they’ve been protecting since. Some people would rather lose you than lose their ego.

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"Admitting we are sick or need help with a problem or failed or been wrong, is not a sign of weakness, but a sign of wisdom and maturity."

“The Grace of Letting Go”

I think what hurts the most is that I didn’t fall for you by accident. I noticed when I was always the one initiating. I noticed when I cared a little deeper. I noticed the imbalance. And yet… I still chose to stay. Not because I didn’t see the reality. But because I believed in the connection. I... read more

Visited My Old Theater Today

Today was the first time I went to a show produced by the theatre group I started and ran for seven years since I walked away from them last October. Oddly unemotional, but kind of confirmed that I made the right choice. They're doing well, producing the sort of facile, shallow, crowd-pleasing... read more

Anything other than the truth is a form of manipulation

Lies, secrets, omission. All forms of betrayal and manipulation. Hiding proves guilt. Denial and Projection proves lack of accountability. Are you capable of admitting fault? Are you capable of changing your behavior/bad habits? If you apologize do you continue to make the same mistakes? Do you use... read more

Dropping an interest.

What are some red flags in a woman or things that she's done or did that make you know she's not the one? I'll give some of mine. One is not reciprocating communication. Having a high body count. Going out with her girlfriends and not including you. Talking back. Never admitting she's wrong. (edited)