Been saving and working hard to meet someone and make plans to start a family with , just to realize it wasn't at all worth it. I was in a LDR until i wanted to step it up work hard and change the LDR into a family.. i proposed.. how it ended it wasn't cheating it was realizing i was being mocked. Came in her country with everything prepared only myself because she wasn't even trying. I did my all but she didn't, i told her one time i want to be understood and she replied with : "then find someone that understands you.." It's weird why keeping this relationship to be with me to see me struggle to go in bedroom with me and then what ? Went back in my country and we didn't even marry.. I am afraid of doing this mistake ever again.. Probably really liked the bedroom i guess but if that's so then why just me.. why after arguments would just come back at me saying sorry .. And this situation is just longer and more complicated than this.. I want opinions from other women. The girl is a filipina . We waited for eachother 3 years and after that i went to her as a vacation trip.. for 3 weeks then i came back afterwards in 2021 after the world problem.. i wanted to step it up marry.. settle everything to be with her.. This was a planned marriage but ended up in distress because of her and been there for 1 year and a half now im back again struggling.. finding a job.. after i lost so much she still wants us to be together.. I dont understand why in her eyes its like not her fault.. and everything is fine.. 😞

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You did what you could buy did. Is not your fault, you gave love, the other person did not want it. Try again and don't let people change you.

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My posts are not direct to anybody but if shoes fits you, wear it Cinderella

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it's important to know when to withdraw from places that don't fit you.

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Yes it is..

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How can you turn pain into something beautiful?

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:-I dont know who needs to hear this, but GUYS: "TAKE YOUR HEALTH SERIOUSLY" DONT DISMISS YOUR HEALTH OR MENTAL HEALTH CONCERNS, IT DOESN'T MAKE YOU ANY LESS OF A MAN TO REACH OUT FOR HELP. "PLEASE LOOK AFTER YOURSELVES" 🙇🏻‍♂🙎🏻‍♂💁🏻‍♂🚶🏻

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Jenn

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Take note :

When you feel like quitting Think about what you started

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Madalina

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To be hurt by many people may have become a habit for a few people, but it just doesn't look Keep it after you have released yourself from that feeling and make it free

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Jenn

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Very well said!! I hope there is still a guy like this 😪

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Forneus

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Why is soo hard to let go ?

My ex didn't appreciated me even when I did so much for he, treated her like my queen, gave her all the respect and attention that she deserved, always were there for her. On top of it she would always tried to put me down and tell her friends that I'm a bad person. I know I'm not a bad person all... read more