Approach Community

Love in your late twenties and mid-thirties.

Loving after your late twenties or mid-thirties feels very different than it did in your twenties. Back then, relationships often started from excitement. Everything was new. You were still discovering who you were, what you wanted, what kind of life you were building. It was easier to follow... (edited) read more

Men, I have a question.

When guys approach women, do you consider what ‘league’ she’s in compared to you, or do you just say screw it and shoot your shot anyway?

Most of the Polish men are too shy to approach the person they like. Is it true?

Just curious..

Approach

Hey guys and gals but... I'm not good at this... Well, I will write from the top of my head. What is your approach method? In this app and irl? What I mean is... Personally I think I'm over explaining after I get comfortable and before I'm scared to write. Feeling that even if I write I will just... read more

How do people meet people?

Seriously, I'm not into clubbing or going to bars. Probably won't look for people to date at work, I'm not going to approach a stranger on the street. So how do people meet people and get into relationships without being weird about it? (edited)

I Woke Up and Chose Chaos

Today I woke up and chose chaos. Specifically, chaos on dating apps. I’ve tried the “cool girl” approach. I’ve tried being emotionally available. I’ve tried crafting thoughtful, charming, well-balanced opening lines that say, *“I’m stable but fun. Quirky but grounded. Mysterious but... read more