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Question for the men:

Do you really move mountains for a woman you truly want to be with? Like, if a man knows he wants someone, does he naturally make the effort, find time, communicate, check on her, and make her feel chosen? Is it because men express interest differently, because they’re genuinely busy, or because... read more

Why modern dating patterns punish emotionally available people?

One of the most destabilizing patterns I've noticed among clients (as a psychological counselor) in modern dating is that detachment is often rewarded, while emotional availability, regardless of gender, is quietly punished. Many emotionally available men and women enter dating with clarity,... (edited) read more

We all agree that cheating or physical abuse are major red flags, but we often forget that relationships are supposed to fulfill our emotional needs too. Ignoring your partner's feelings is just as much of a 🚩

I just watched a video about a girl who ended her 8-year relationship with her man cause long distance. It’s so sad. Every time they met up once every two months, she was over the moon and thought he was her whole world. But a relationship shouldn’t just be about maintaining things once every two... (edited) read more

Me as a gf

Literallyyyyy. I've lost track of how often I've been in this scenario with past partners of mine LMAO. EDITED TO ADD: Because of both comments AND messages from cis straight men exclusively, saying stuff like "well be more bold" and "maybe you should communicate" I'm leaving a DISCLAIMER. BRO,... (edited) read more

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i don't understand why in this generation you have to repress the love you have for someone. why shouldn't i text a lot and show you i like you? why should i act uninterested in you and why should i not communicate our problems??

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to every woman that needs to hear this: there are good men out there. Men who listen instead of dismissing you. Men who take accountability, communicate, apologize, and make you feel safe, seen & appreciated. You're worthy of healthy love, and it's out there. Don't settle