What's the best kind of opening message to send to a girl? I don't like sending pickup lines because I'm not creative enough to come up with original ones. I can send a complement but it doesn't seem to really strike up a conversation. Or I can ask a question but it normally gets ignored...

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Debbie

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compliments are nice but that makes me think they only care about looks. if i was getting a first message I'd like a comment about why they are interested, or what they liked about my profile. anything that shows they didnt just look at my pictures and are interested in getting to know who i am as a person.

Liz

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For me I like to get openers about common interests, i enjoy humor and knowledgeable ppl who arent condescending.

Jón

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Well girls who act that way aren't worth much 😁 if your to afraid to say right out or remove someone that just makes them a coward 😌 i recommend getting their attention by showing your funny side and repay them in kind when they become interested 😂 is it petty yes it is but it should teach them to show minimal respect and maturity at some point obviously same goes for guy's but it's rare they act like that (edited)

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Please tell me why people( I won't say just guys cause girls do this too) that when having a normal conversation just getting to know someone...why bring sexual stuff up when it was nowhere near what was being talked about!?! I'm beyond frustrated that I can't have a normal conversation without it... read more

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Nothing worse than seeing someone you might like but then they have one major deal breaker so you just head desk for 30 minutes straight cause you know it's not going to work so why bother

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