Disclaimer: I am not a dating coach but, these question worked for me to at least know how genuine the person is with their passion and how they wanted to pursue their lives. Also, the way you ask is also a factor. I would love to read your way of asking question on first dates to know how genuine one can be. (edited)

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Will only work if the other person will actually attempt to converse with you. Otherwise all of your questions will be ignored or met with one word replies

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I personally wouldn't want to get grilled with all these questions on a 1st date. It wouldn't feel very relaxed and make me more nervous. I think some of these questions gradually over time would allow someone like me to open up, than straight-up ambushed...Just being honest. Also u can find someone who is genuine not just by their words or answers, but also by their actions (edited)

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Just for fun, I'll answer number 4 because I think about this everyday. My junior year of high school for band, we took a vacation to South Padre Island. The trip was great, but the most memorable moment I had was when all of the band kids got together and we went out to the beach at night. It was magical. Straight up. Imagine, everyone sitting by a small campfire roasting marshmallows talking about our futures. Some are sitting in the sand, couples are sitting together gazing at the night sky and the sound of the waves crashing against the sand just sounding away. Some sleeping on shoulders, others are just gazing at the night sky. It was a beautiful moment for me. I remember getting up from the campfire and sitting on the sand next to the water and just gazing up to the stars. All I thought in the moment was, "this is it. This is what want life to feel like everyday". I truly felt free. No parents around, no teachers, no rules to hold me. It's just me and nature in its purest form

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