After having been on one or two dates, I feel it’s common courtesy to be honest and say “I’m not feeling the connection” or “I’m not interested”. Instead they stop answering messages. Why do people ghost?

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Patricia

17h

INTP

Aries

If i see 1 more profile of 5 people in it as a main picture, i will pull my eyes out. Am i supoosed to” eenie meenie miney mo” ?! What if i end up with the most unattractive one? disclaimer, this is a joke. I repeat. This is a joke 🥴 or.. is it?

#dating

Patricia

18h

INTP

Aries

1 Award

What does it mean when people put on their profile “looking for long term relationship, open for short” ?! Is .. it.. like… rental? 2-3 weeks? 60 minutes? 20 seconds? 23 months? Lmao

#dating

Patricia

17h

INTP

Aries

Somebody said that they are looking for a “flexible” relationship. Mind you, I was single for a long time, but is the dating scene the new 9-5? Is it the new singles corporate nightmare?! 🥴🥴how about weekends? Working well under pressure..?

#dating

FunnyGirl ✨🌙✨

ISFJ

Dinner date you have invited your date over for dinner what would you make?

#dating

Mahtab

15h

ESFJ

Taurus

Lovely ❤️

#dating

Charmaine

11h

INFP

Aquarius

Question Of The Day

What's the most Significant lesson you've learned about Yourself and Relationships??

#dating

Divya

ENFJ

Leo

1 Award

Wanna to date someone

#dating

Jelena

17h

INTP

Taurus

Dm me

Annoying guys pls avoid me.. 🙏🏻🙄

#questions1

Kea

22h

ENFJ

Aries

What's your favorite color?

🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷❤️‍🩹 Happy Friday 😊 #writing #life #dating #random

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Donnielle

20h

ISFJ

Aquarius

Men

To all the men with chest up pics….just a small tip. Set timer on your camera to 5 sec and step back to get a full body pic. Just one will save you. No full body pic I swipe left and I bet so do other women. Self care is important in my book. (edited)

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Edd

12h

ISFJ

Leo

Dating

Imma be drinking tonight. So expect a DM from me if you cute

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Patricia

INTP

Aries

Call me insane, but i miss the good old” men holding a big fish like a baby” photos on online dating profiles. Now all i’m seeing is thirst traps and bathroom selfies. Call me old fashioned, but bring back the tuna fish😂🎣

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Rae

22h

INFP

Cancer

Tennis shoes, high heels, or flip flops?

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Marie Mendoza

ISTJ

Aquarius

Not always active here, it's my busy days 😔😕

#dating

Edd

12h

ISFJ

Leo

Dating

If you my man, ima sing to you ... Idc what I sound like, I'm beyonce tonight

#dating

Patricia

INTP

Aries

People say that love comes your way when you least expect it. I did not expect it for years, but still hasn’t showed up. Should i start expecting it instead?🥴🥴

#dating

Alex

ENFP

Aquarius

😒

Tonight I feel like I'm done trying. Most of you wouldn't recognize a good guy if he stared you in the face, and I'm sick of staring. Most of y'all want a prick that treats you like S**t. That's memorable, that's trauma, that requires recovery. Meanwhile us nice guys read your profile, take time to... read more

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Chase

19h

ISTJ

Leo

Wait for a match or message first

I'm curious which people prefer for this. I know that due to non paying users not being able to see who matches them, some people prefer just having a message. But I wanted to know what the general consensus was on this.

Wait for a match before messaging

Message without matching

21 votes

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Dan

17h

ENFP

Leo

Did dating get tough?

Is it me or did dating get so much harder?

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M🌙✨N

23h

INFJ

Virgo

Reminder.

I’m all about keeping things real and drama-free. If you’ve got unfinished business, a partner, or any mess to deal with, keep it moving & don’t ever chat or talk with me. I don’t want any baggage or stress. Just looking for someone honest, loyal, and down-to-earth. No married people or anyone with... read more

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Surya

12h

ENTP

Capricorn

Best medicine in the world 😜 agree...👀

#dating

Edd

12h

ISFJ

Leo

Dating

i was soooo close to being in some matching pajamas this christmas 🤏

#dating

Rysha

ENFJ

Gemini

Videos

I know this is dating apps.. I know it open to both gender male female.. still when I scrolling and accidentally saw female show off her blossom that's shocking. Please I know you're beautiful but please don't..

#dating

Nathan

19h

ISTJ

Sagittarius

lone

I just cannot get a single match and its very unmotivating. Hell i dont even get views either. :(

#dating

Liad

ENFJ

Libra

Based

That's why Boo is better

#רומנטיקה

Chen

15h

ISFJ

Scorpio

#dating#nightout#love

Wish one day to find my only one ❤️

#dating

𝐛𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐧

17h

INTP

Capricorn

so uh...

is anyone really finding someone to date from here? it seems... damn near impossible. honestly, i don't even try... high chance of getting 'ghosted'.

#dating

Moon 🌓 & Rain 🌧️

10h

ISFJ

Leo

👩👨😆😜

#relationship #boo #funny

#dating

Elina 🍫

ENFJ

Taurus

🤩🤩

#dating

Hana

ESTJ

where am i?

Ok, good night Sleep well.

#dating

Daniel

12h

ENFP

Taurus

Similarities

A tendancy I've noticed on many profiles and in many conversations is the need to include phrases such as "must like dogs", or "must love travel". There's a comparatively low ratio of people looking for things like kindness, supportiveness or reliablility. I don't think someone else having the... read more

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Gaz

22h

ISTP

Aries

Says it all 😘.

How cool is this

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Erick

ENFP

Gemini

She likes you

If she call you silly names, she likes you! 😂

#dating

Jordi

ENFP

Pisces

Excuse number 1

Why are the people who are 'not ready to date' in dating apps?

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Cecil

20h

ISFP

Gemini

Hello there!

Imma 19 year old Non-Binary lad who hates being lonely. ;v; I am only attracted to women (sorry dudes) and am looking for someone 18-21 (small gap, I know. But that’s just me ;-;)

Me in my Bucky Barnes hoodie with my Uzi bird plush on my head.

1/2

Ladies, what do you do when a guy is coming on too strong?

Dating Community

Respect her boundaries. Respect his boundaries. Communicate prudently. Good things come with time, but there are many people out there who just want to skip the line. Be patient with one another.

I normally call them out on it.

I think it can be adjust if I love her.....

If we're talking about talking to someone online, I usually tell them directly that their behaviour makes me uncomfortable. And if they don't get it I block them. If they're just some random I've never even talked to I just block them right away

Need to take time.

Pull it out 😆

I'd probably ask her to quantify the issue. I'm into "everyone wins" scenarios as much as possible, so I'd find out how I can still show I care without taking it too far. I don't imagine myself as someone who 'could' come on too strong, but it's still something for me to consider.

Last time it happened, I told her I'm not going to bother her any further. But it doesn't mean I'm closing the door or anything. Simply that I won't make a single move unless she initiate something. I've been in the opposite situation as well. I was just honnest and she was respectful about it.

Respect boundaries and hopefully you can find something else to talk about. It would be nice if the person who was saying that they're uncomfortable talking about x would come up with a new subject

Stop talking to them. Remove myself from the situation.

Oh I never get told Im coming on too strong since I always just assume that I am and end up avoiding being affectionate in any form at all cost as a counterproductive emotional defense mechanism.

Take a big 'ol step back, usually

Yup. Just communicate clearly and everything will be good :)

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If i see 1 more profile of 5 people in it as a main picture, i will pull my eyes out. Am i supoosed to” eenie meenie miney mo” ?! What if i end up with the most unattractive one? disclaimer, this is a joke. I repeat. This is a joke 🥴 or.. is it?