Christy

Posted Friday, December 8, 2023

2mo

ISFJ
Leo

Young men in their twenties

Sometimes I wonder if trying to date a man in his thirties is not a good idea. Most have kids or have been divorced and are jaded about women. I've noticed that the younger guys 24 and up are a little more interested in pursuing me. Interesting 🤔.

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Dex

2mo

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Pisces

I feel like if a man made this post about younger, it'd get all the backlash this one got with a dash of creepy predator in there. 😅

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Christy

2mo

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How am I a predator for thinking about letting a grown man date me ?

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Dex

2mo

INTP
Pisces

@Christy I never said you were. But roles reversed, that's how men are seen for the exact same reasoning. I think you're fine for dating whoever you want.

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Christy

2mo

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@Dex men are praised for dating younger women. Just look at that playboy creep, roman polinski, Diddy, Jay Z, Leonardo DiCaprio ect. Id LOVE to find a man who is 30 and up but none of you are single, no kids, and aren't on your second divorce 😂.

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Dex

2mo

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Pisces

@Christy 🤭 Please exclude famous people from your generalizations. Famous men and women can do whatever they want and be praised for it. Us average men, not to much. Anyways, there plenty of us around as you described. I have no doubt you'll find one of us leftovers to fill the void. 😊

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Christy

2mo

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Leo

@Dex I've never met one man my age that wasn't angry, full of kids and regrets.

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Dex

2mo

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@Christy Well, I very rarely meet anyone in life that doesn't have regrets 😅 Same with angry I think too. It just manifests differently. But I think you mean bitter, which is also a common issue with both sides at this age lol. Us millennials are just bitter in general. I know myself is without kids and i see quite a lot of men on here without as well, in my age group. 🤷🏽‍♂️ You got this!

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Kristen

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@Christy

@Christy

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Seeta/Sita/Cyta✨️

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Younger guys are big nonono for me, they're still exploring their options and not so marriage material imo😅

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Christy

2mo

ISFJ
Leo

I don't think men who are my age are marriage material either hahaha. I haven't met any so far that are.

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Seeta/Sita/Cyta✨️

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@Christy men in my area and age do want to settle down but they're expecting baby incubators and free maid😰😨

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Carla

2mo

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Gemini

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A man of God is your best bet 😊💙

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Christy

2mo

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They don't like me, I'm opinionated and not a perfect little angel who wants to be barefoot, pregnant and submissive. I also like rap and supernatural stuff 😂.

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Carla

2mo

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Gemini

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@Christy it’s okay to be opinionated (: the right one will stick around even if they are few

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Christy

2mo

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@Carla Yes I need to go back to Church but I am stuck feeling sorry for myself and wondering why God hates me. I used to do well with Christianity but I'm lost again.

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Carla

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@Christy it’s okay Christy, He wants you to go back too. He welcomes you with arms wide open 💙🫂 give Him your worries and let go of the guilt to Him. After so long, I went back to church some weeks ago. You got this 😊

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Christy

2mo

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@Carla I know my friend is going to try and encourage me to go back to church when I visit her on Monday 😂. She's so sweet and perfect, I'd never be like her. I am so ratchet it many ways hahaha.

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Carla

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@Christy I’m glad you have someone to encourage you. We all change at different times. The important thing is to be willing to change. (: If you’re alive, you’re never too far gone😃

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Steven

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@Christy it’s ok to feel the way you do. God doesn’t hate you , I promise you . Realize we are in the devils realm living to prove our loyalty to GOD . Be strong

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Kevin

2mo

ENFP
Aries

Hell I became jaded about dating women when I was 20. All it takes is for you to get burned badly once until you start looking up information about these creatures

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Christy

2mo

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Leo

You block your blessings by treating every women you encounter like the one who hurt you.

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Kevin

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@Christy well I've dated four women, the first one slept with the whole football team behind my back, the second one moved out of town and got pregnant, the third one slept with my best friend and left me high and dry, and the one I'm looking at now. Who knew all of this? I'm starting to figure out that she is just using me for my money. So yeah, at this point I'm just trying to protect my wallet.

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Christy

2mo

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Leo

@Kevin Well, being single seems to be the best for now. I wouldn't be able to date after all that.

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Kevin

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@Christy after that third one I went red pill for like 6 years. Trying to get it to work but the first one while she seemed sincere is turning into more of the same.

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Kristen

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They're gonna get worse the older they get so pluck a young one now. Trust me. Train them up. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Christy

2mo

ISFJ
Leo

This comment is concerning 😭. I'm starting to believe this.

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I have the strongest sense that younger males think that 30+ year old women are wild in bed (not that it’s untrue 😏), and that’s what they’re after. most young men (I want to say, all men, but that would be petty) lack maturity 🤷‍♀️ p.s. the 20 year olds do look better for most part 🤔 * (and for the young males: “pssst the 50+ year old women are even wilder in bed 😎)

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Christy

2mo

ISFJ
Leo

That's what's hard for me. The young men are immature but they still have the energy and the hope to keep pursuing. Men my age have been hurt so they think all woman are terrible people. I'm stuck in the middle of both!!

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@Christy well young man have advantages, but they have dissadvanges 🤷‍♀️ and same with the men our age, no one is perfect

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Tim

2mo

INFP
Aquarius

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Get it! Keep your standards, and approach it with an open mind.. they might surprise you.. maybe..

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Vincent

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Jaded I may be, but I'm always looking to have my mind changed. As an aside, glass houses, I could apply most of those negatives to women over 30 but that would make me a toxic, misogynistic, neanderthal. For what it's worth my range is 35 to 50 b/c it's easier to relate to people near my own age.

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