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Debate about the subconscious

Sooo in the uni the topic came to subconscious mind and that jarred alot of interesting debates and questions. How much is the subconscious mind in control of in regular dynamics. Do you notice the subconscious pattern of not talking with certain people or just certain situations. Let's have a… read more

Well said

"Not being easily impressed means you navigate the world with a high standard, a deep sense of authenticity, and a refusal to settle for superficiality. When you don’t easily buy into the hype, common social dynamics, trendy spaces, or surface-level conversations can feel incredibly unfulfilling.… read more

How do you deal with Group Dynamics and working towards a Shared Goal with someone?

Im doing a personal study, if you will. Im trying to learn how others deal with the difficulty of maintaining Goal Oriented Bonds with others. To start, how do you personally feel about your ability to build goals with a new person? Or even a person youve known? What do you struggle most with?… read more

Why do I despise conventional relationship dynamics?

I've been trying to figure out whether I actually dislike the way relationships work, or whether I just dislike what they reveal about me. On one hand, a lot of relationship culture genuinely feels alien to me. The attraction then goes as follows: dating, exclusivity, marriage, house, kids… read more

Welp

Ah… that feeling. Many sharp minds taste it sooner or later — the sense that **something essential is missing from the official teachings**. But let me tell you the truth in a calm, steady voice: **They are not hiding the core knowledge. They simply don’t possess it.** The system isn’t built by… read more

Why Personal Growth Makes Dating Harder

Doing the heavy lifting of self-healing and personal growth should theoretically lead to better relationships. Instead, it often makes finding a partner feel almost impossible. This isn't because you're broken; it's because you're no longer compatible with how modern dating works. Standard… read more

Applying systems thinking needs others to succeed.

When I studied social work, part of the curriculum was about looking at the nation-wide effects of certain strategies. Like how prioritizing mental health, could have an effect on various other metrics. What I also noticed, was that the various tools and skillsets related to organizations and… (edited) read more

Gachiakuta

This anime holds a special place in my heart. Yes it's Trash, it's a Trash anime but that's what makes it so beautiful. For a lot of my life I've had a hard time dealing with a lot of the same issues the protag does so on that level I resonate with him. This anime is special and dear to me… read more

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People Aren’t You

People can be vastly different from you. What seems completely harmless or insignificant to you might trigger someone else, and sometimes their reaction tells you more about what’s going on internally for them than about the actual situation. Be careful who you let get close to you—social dynamics… read more

imago theory

so there's this concept that our earliest perceptions of our parental figures and their relationship with each other is what drives our attraction and the kind of relationship dynamics we seek later on in life because that's what is the most familiar form of love to us. based on this, how do you… read more

When we don't own our shame, it leaks out through blame, withdrawal, projection, defensiveness and countless other forms of ick..

"Owning our shame" is the willingness to name it, decision to face it, and inner work to metabolize it so we don't accidentally let it wreck our relationships. Owning our shame means saying "This is mine to work through, not yours to carry." [Disclaimer] Shame work requires relative safety and… read more

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Demi

Lost in woods and be hermits together. Stay relaxed. And excited about things like chickens. But first there's the friendship and getting to know one another, building trust. Friendship and relationship can be equally important/satisfying. I don't really have a preference just depends on the… (edited) read more

We Support Fiction but not in reality

When we watch anime and movies, we always side with the resistance. We understand oppression immediately. We cheer for the rebels. But in real life—Black Lives Matter, what’s happening with ICE, wars, injustice—people suddenly get quiet. It shows me that when injustice is fiction, people get… read more

Match profile settings

Genuine question On my profile I have only selected looking for friends Suggested matches only say looking for friends Is that because it's matching that search term but you could have selected dating as well? I ask because when I get suggestions, I read the bio every time I am often put off… read more

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Old vs new courting / dating as a guy

I'm 23 from the UK, and I think a lot of younger guys (in western countries) are a bit confused as to whether women like more gentlemanly, traditional men who are protective and take initiative, or whether they think it's patronizing / belittling when men try to lead or assist women with things… read more

Enemies to Lovers Trope

I've been reading The Irresistible Urge to Fall for your Enemy. I challenged myself to read 1 chapter a night to keep myself committed to reading it. So far, so good. The pacing is slow burn but it's exciting to see how the story unfolds and how their dynamics are slowly shifting.

This will never end 'cause I want more. More, give me more - give me more

The unconscious mind sees familiarity as safety, even when that familiarity is actively toxic. My early landscape was defined by that which created trauma. The ego became conditioned to seek out those exact unhealthy dynamics in future relationships. It created a horrific paradox: where the… read more

Global Citizens

I love multicultural spaces and authentic cross-cultural connections. I’ve struggled to find that in my home country, where interracial dating is often reduced to optics, stereotypes, and unhealthy power dynamics instead of real interest and mutual respect. I’m not here for desperation,… (edited) read more

So true!

The right connection emotionally will lead to things like this not ruining the mood but possibly even adding to the mood. Maybe not forever and not for everyone but in general when things are progressing in dynamics and relationships. Both sides need to feel confident, conforted, and safe. ♡♡

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A leaf miner

I was casually walking through the park the other day when a leaf caught my attention. It had the most unique pattern I'd ever seen. My curiosity immediately kicked in. What kind of leaf was this? Why was it so beautifully patterned? None of the other leaves looked like it, so I assumed it had to… (edited) read more

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Growth Is the Minimum Standard for Healthy, Mutual Effort in My Life

After nearly 39 years of life, I am very clear on what I need in my circle, whether that is friends, partners, or chosen family. I need people with coping skills and communication skills. People who know how to apologize, who know how to repair instead of deflect, and who understand that conflict… read more

Choice

In the end, the dynamics of life teach us one important thing: human views will always be diverse and can never be uniform. The key to happiness is not fulfilling all these expectations, but rather being at peace with the best choices we make for our own lives

Love Blindness: The Believable Lie Beneath "The Happy Ending"

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The Architecture of Disconnection: A Research-Based Look at Modern Relationship Culture.

The common complaint that "dating is harder now" isn't just nostalgia; it’s a reflection of a fundamental shift in how we relate to one another. My research into modern relationship dynamics suggests that we haven’t just changed how we meet—we’ve changed the psychological "contract" of commitment… read more

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Not what it used to be

Anyone else who has used Boo for a while feel like the community dynamics have changed a lot? Remember way more interaction and conversation happening in the forums originally. Now it feels rare have a good conversation or exchange. Is it just me or has anyone else felt this as well?

Conditional But Reciprocal

We often hear the word unconditional when we’re talking about love. I have a problem with this word, However, the issue is not what some may think. The reason I have an issue with this word is because when it comes to relationships, we all have things that we won’t tolerate, we call those… read more

You say you want love. What you need is leverage.

I found out the phrase is attributed to Dave Elliot, a relationship coach, and was popularized through his work and connection with author Marianne Williamson. It suggests that to truly experience love, one must first possess leverage—not in a manipulative sense, but as a personal foundation of… read more

Vortex shedding from a boundary layer

On a walk recently the river had gone down considerably. I was wondering at how clear the water was, when I noticed this boundary layer interaction with vortex shedding and mixing. Reminded me of my fluid dynamics days. Always take an opportunity to nerd out.

Love Letter to Dark Souls (a 15 minute ramble essay)

Legend of Zelda was such an important game series for me as an over thinker who always wanted to know the right thing to do. The world of Zelda provided clear answers and unquestioned objective morality. It gave me a mission. It gave me landmarks. It gave me a compass. It said, go here and do this.… read more

Underestimated.

I begin to think that I greatly underestimated human capabilities for being at least in certain regards. All or many of the archetypes woven do occasionally come forth within humanity, and it is not some exceptional unique cases, but a quite steady weave within the humankind. It was, of course,… (edited) read more

To Women

If you want a partner who rejects patriarchy, prepare to offer genuine respect, not just demands. A non-patriarchal man doesn't look for submission. Instead, he looks for a safe space to be vulnerable and an equal partner to lean on. After all, true equality in a relationship never grows from… read more

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Absolute Dishonesty

For many years I have adopted an "absolute honesty" mentality, and often times I find that people claim they want honesty, but "within limits" and only if they are ready to accept it. I find this peculiar because honesty, if applied, would only be an absolute. Here is my take on it, and why I think… read more

When did dating become a checklist?

I’ve been thinking about modern dating, and something feels off. A lot of men are evaluated through checklists—height, money, status, even body traits—before genuine interest is allowed to exist. It sometimes feels like attraction isn’t enough anymore; you have to qualify. What’s interesting is… read more