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What is last stage of grieve ? Acceptance.

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I grieve a love story that hasn’t happened, a face I don’t know, and a man I’m not even sure exists.

Dear Woman,

If the time comes when you have to choose between begging him to stay and finally choosing yourself, may you remember that losing someone you love is painful, but losing yourself just to keep someone is a different kind of heartbreak. And if you have to walk away with tears in your eyes and a… read more

If I Forget the Way Back

The burden of thought. The burden of speech. The burden of needing to pour oneself out one drop at a time, for fear of overflowing, or perhaps simply the burden of waking, and facing existence once more. There is a delicate line between sanity and madness, and I spend my days in relentless… read more

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"So that you don't grieve over what you missed from you, nor are you too happy about what He gives you. And Allah does not like anyone who is arrogant and self-satisfied." (QS. Al-Hadid: 23)

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I wasn’t looking for a door, yet somehow, one opened. I stepped in without knowing what I would find. There were moments I didn’t expect, feelings I hadn’t planned for, and something in me quietly coming alive. Then, quietly, the door closed. I let myself grieve, but I did not leave with it. ✨ (edited)

My first love

I gave up on music for 8 years over a woman. I’m now having to relearn and grieve a part of my life I abandoned for so long. If anyone has passion, don’t let anyone get in the way of it, a true partner will be your biggest supporter no matter what.

Do the stars grieve?

I float where twilight spills its violet sighs, Carrying echoes of moments that slipped through my hands. Moonlight drapes the night like a forgotten lullaby, Do the stars ever mourn the hearts that wander alone, or simply watch them vanish?

Myna's puppyhood

Myna our paralyzed puppy rarely grieve limitations; her desire to play, cuddle, and explore when provided with support and love

The number one thing I've learned about breakups...

... It's healthy and normal to miss them, it's okay to give yourself time to grieve, and letting yourself feel the raw, unrestricted emotions that come from the heartbreak will better enable you to move on.

"How do you grieve for a love that did not even exist?"

Have you ever let someone become part of your every day so quietly that you did not notice the attachment forming, until you imagined their absence?

You tell yourself that if they warned you, if they stood at the edge and said goodbye, you would be grateful. You would smile, thank them for the honesty, and pretend it was enough. But beneath that calm understanding, something would still ache. Something would still grieve. And if they vanished… read more

Past the Mask

They say we all wear masks yet we met when the whole world was forced to wear one for real. I won’t pretend I wasn’t curious about you. I still am. You hid so well behind your mask, and you often do. Maybe you like the mystery. Maybe you enjoy being unreadable, knowing you’re a puzzle others can’t… (edited) read more

Disappointment continued

I would argue that disappointment is a gift given to us from the darkest points of our mind.It allows you to see the very moment at which you could have been better.This is difficult for most of us as we will dwell on this moment without moving forward.But if we can harness this moment, this second… read more

❤️ LOVE THOUGHT

Maybe the hardest person to forget isn’t the one you loved the most. It’s the one with whom you imagined a future that never got the chance to happen. You don’t only miss them. You miss the trips you never took. The mornings you never shared. The arguments you never resolved. The version of… read more

L.P

Ironic, isn't it? To end something that never had a beginning. To close a page we never dared to define. To grieve for love we never had the courage to fight for. Yet- Carrying the weight of what could have been. (edited)

🎵Policemen swear to God, love seeping from their guns

I know my friends and I would probably turn and run If you get out of bed, come find us heading for the bridge Bring a stone, all the rage, my little dark age I grieve in stereo, the stereo sounds strange I know that if you hide, it doesn't go away If you get out of bed and find me standing all… read more

A Twisted Revalation

I don't know if I'll ever be able to forgive myself for this but I miss my rage. It really shows me the depths I've managed to sink to now and there is no way I could ever work to reclaim it or rebuild it. I cannot escape the fact that I'm grieving it's loss in exactly the same way that I grieve… read more

Clouds of Smoke

Clouds of Smoke by E. A. P. Bloodcraft(Ed Andrew) I float above them, my problems, The gazes, how they pierce me— Tempered my beckoning hymns Of muffled cries of mild insanity, And I do feel at ease—Oh!—I do, From these fiery tips held stories, Folded neatly & nicely, placed upon The clouds—Just… read more

lifetime

how do you grieve for a love that never exist?!

David Foster Wallace Quote

If you worship money and things, if they are where you tap real meaning in life, then you will never have enough, never feel you have enough. It's the truth. Worship your body and beauty and sexual allure and you will always feel ugly. And when time and age start showing, you will die a million… read more

Poem about longing

I'd like to share a poem I wrote a few months ago about a previous relationship that was really hard to overcome the loss. I started writing poems about my feelings and thoughts. It really helped me feeling better when I used pain to fuel creativity. Please know that I'm not very good with… read more

God Loves You

"Let us not be like the unthinking nine, whose hearts were untouched by the mercy of God. God is love. He has a care for the creatures He has formed. “Like as a father pitieth his children, so the Lord pitieth them that fear Him.” “Behold, what manner of love the Father hath bestowed upon us, that… read more

Truth changes everything

Think about the best news you've ever received in your life. Maybe it was a doctor walking into a waiting room and saying, "The surgery went perfectly." Maybe it was a phone call that said, "You got the job." Maybe it was two lines on a pregnancy test you'd been praying for. Good news changes… read more

Still Standing...

He used to smile like morning knew his name, kindness in his hands, warmth in his frame. He’d laugh through rain, make strangers feel seen, a soft-hearted man with a soul washed clean. Then chaos came wearing familiar faces, left broken glass in the safest places. Trauma talked loud in… read more

Sinking situationships

The most painful breakups are those complex situationships where one party member knows what they'll never be, while the other hopes they can someday be chosen. Meanwhile, everyone refuses to acknowledge they're both on a sinking ship, slowly succumbing to a watery grave. These scenarios hurt… (edited) read more

The Hero in the Dark: Sergei Preminin and the Bitter Irony of Soviet Sacrifice

The story of Soviet sailor Sergei Preminin is one of unparalleled individual heroism, bitter institutional coldness, and a tragic irony that encapsulates the twilight of the Soviet Union and, by extension, Communism itself. Sergei was born in 1965 in a tiny, freezing logging village called… read more

July again 💀

Funny how I grieve the death of fictional characters. But when my father died seven years ago, I rehearsed the most perfect smile. So no one would know how broken I am inside.

An old widower

That is how I feel, or atleast describes me in a most honest light. Only they aren't dead, but it is the analogy that bares the best semblance to where i am. Tensioned between fear and desire, all the while trying to give myself the space to grieve. Take your time, for in the end it all anyone… read more

one another

if you’re mad, be mad for another if you take vengeance, take vengeance for another if you grieve, grieve for another if you boast, boast for another if you are proud, be proud of another if you defend, defend another if you attack, attack for another

Jolly Monday

29 Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. 30 And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 31 Get rid of all bitterness,… read more

It is a different kind of grief to grieve for someone you haven't met yet.

A day could go by like the breeze whirl into the winds—but the sensation lingers—keeping my heart contracts like it had been attacked. Suddenly, all the distractions disintegrated, and all that remained was the embers of regrets. (edited)

The truth..( it's bitter..but Sweet!)

It is true that everything in this world eventually shifts, and love, in all its beautiful complexity, is no exception. It hurts deeply when the love we once knew alters its shape, leaving us to grieve what used to be. Yet, this change isn't necessarily an ending; it is just nature breathing. Just… read more

Asking for a friend

sometimes the love of your life goes away and nobody else can fill that void. and so you may come to the realization that perhaps a life alone is more your speed. I really did love you, To the core of my being. But here I stand alone. My body grown flabby but my inner self honed to a point so… read more

In A Neglected House

"To feel sorrow at an unaccomplished meeting, to grieve over empty vows, to spend the long night sleepless and alone, to yearn for distant skies, in a neglected house to think fondly of the past — this is what love is... Now looking back on months and years of intimacy, to feel that your friend,… read more