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Posted Saturday, December 17, 2022
2y
ENFP
Is changing oneself okay?
If someone wants to heal from trauma and change themselves, is it possible that this desire in itself is wrong? I learned that there are ways of trying to heal the wrong way/for the wrong reasons. If I need to change in order to accept myself, it means that I'm not accepting myself as I am. If don't accept myself, I'm missing the goal. Could this become a vicious circle? I'm not sure if I'm making any sense here…
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I think that traumas is blocking our real healthy inner resources to be happy, they making us weak, stressful, unhappy. Healing traumas is helping us to get our true selves back. Yes we cant erase our traumas but by healing it we change our attitude to them, memory remains, pains gone, experience and wisdom arrives instead of grief and anger. So as per me we are not changing ourselves, but we getting back to our trueselves instead by healing. Traumas changes us and we need to find a way back to ourselves.
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