Hurt Community

Let's trust that people know themselves lol

I tell people that I don't have the capacity to be in a relationship and won't have for a while, they'll still insist and keep trying to pursue me and then they act *surprised* and hurt when I act like this when one inconvenience occurs lmao:

Smile, even when you are hurt.

When... Someone asks you If anyone has Hurt you... Smile... Then say: "No one." There are only people Who have taught me Life lessons. I will never FORGET...

The Odyssey

Today I watched The Odyssey. It wasn't the battles that stayed with me. It was the sea. The silence between the waves. The music that seemed to come from older than memory. There was a moment when Odysseus tied himself to the mast. He chose to hear the song knowing he could never answer it. He... read more

For those who are widowed.

Were you able to overcome your loss? In my case, years have passed, but sometimes the memories return and hurt deeply. Every time I meet someone, they have some flaw that reminds me she is irreplaceable. At this point, I don't know if I'll ever get over this.

New to this

Well, this is a new thing for me, never trusted dating apps. As a recovering demisexual I spent over a decade discovering what it was I actually want in life. I walked many paths and found only one truth so far... I've never belonged where my head rest every night because the world i saw never saw... read more

Letting Go

I used to think letting go meant losing. Like unclenching your fist and watching every memory fall through your fingers— their laugh, their name, the way they made a room feel warmer even after they became the coldest thing in it. I thought the past was a country I had to keep... read more