Mentally Community

Built by every setback

People have been asking me what my motivation is. Sometimes, negativity is my motivation. Being told I’m too big, not feminine enough, and hearing all those unnecessary comments. I turn them into fuel to grow, not just physically, but mentally. I’m here to motivate and spread positivity because I… (edited) read more

I'm 33. I don't think I can date someone younger than 25 or older than 35. If he was younger than 25, he would have to be mentally mature enough and if he's older than 35, he would have to be playful enough. We would have to have shared values and he has to have the ability to really make me laugh.

I prefer connecting first mentally rather than emotionally.

Why do we go back to what used to hurt us?

I know I was abused I know I've been verbally and mentally hurt by this family member I know I was good in their eyes as long as I said yes and I would do it I know I was an easy target because I never asked for anything back just one nice word, and to avoid getting hurt by them I know I was sad… read more

Like is any of this for real, or not?

Can't believe we're 3/4 of the way through 2026 and I still haven't figured my life out. Ever since Covid, I feel like my whole existence has been altered somehow. Like nothing feels real anymore. And I'm always tired-- physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. Also, everything I was… read more

Share Your Story

Has anyone done something that resulted in breaking your own heart due to your own dumb choices or decisions? I'll start with mine, because I'm bored and I'm sulking. I thought it was a good idea to talk to my ex as friends because we broke up a year ago around May, and I went through the 5 stages… read more

Growing Up With Hachi: Learning About Myself and the Love I Deserve

Last night and today, I’ve been binge-watching one of my favorite anime/manga series, NANA, and honestly, I’ve been seeing so much of myself in Nana Komatsu (Hachi). I’m 29, turning 30 next year, and rewatching the series at this point in my life has made me understand Hachi on a whole different… read more

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Mentally and emotionally here!🥲Let’s go back and visit on winter.☺️ (edited)

To anyone serious and looking for long-term relationship only

Posting till I find someone who is also looking for a long-term relationship. 35+ years and above. No kids but wants kids in future. I have no kids myself. Be emotionally stable. Mentally stable. STRAIGHT. Single. Long distance at first but eventually willing to meet in person. PM me if this… read more

When a 22-year-old asks me for advice on how to succeed, I think the real question is whether they can actually understand and apply the advice at that stage of life.

There’s so much advice out there about how to succeed. You can study billionaires, entrepreneurs, or anyone who has achieved something significant, and they’ll all have different paths and different advice. But I think the more important question is: when you hear that advice at 22, what do you… read more

Deception of love

Once your realize that when loving the wrong person can break you both mentally and physically , you realize that when you love someone that is not meant for you you can destroy your life, that's when you have a choice either stick with the pain or rebuild yourself

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Never get too attached to anyone, unless they also feel the same towards you. Because one sided expectations can mentally destroy you. Some people become your whole world While you remain just a chapter in theirs So choose those who choose you

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mentally drained from reviewing😵‍💫

I know when I found the one when: -I can spill mentally while I see that he wants to understand me -I can say "rude" things to him and he knows I'm not trying to be rude -I don't have to walk on eggshells and we can have hard conversations -He accepts when he's wrong -He accepts me as I am

-He sacrifices things for me and never puts it in my face -He doesn't propose past 2 years max after we've been in a relationship -He does EVERYTHING in his power to make me feel safe

Single

Posting till I find someone who is also looking for a long-term relationship. 35+ years and above. No kids but wants kids in future. I have no kids myself. Be emotionally stable. Mentally stable. STRAIGHT. Single. Long distance at first but eventually willing to meet in person. PM me if this… read more

My inner voice whenever someone comments on my single status 🙂

Don't judge someone just because they're still single in their thirties. Some of you are even divorced at the same age, yet you're never judged for getting married young without being mentally or financially prepared. Not to mention the issue of creating a brand new generation from broken families… read more

Mentally i'm here

Nick Cave&The Bad Seeds and Kylie Minogue. Where the wild roses grow 🖤

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Desperate of mentally stimulating convo.. anyone? 🤣

Meandering River & Gender Roles..

So its been some time. Sometimes from ground zero, where it all happened. Six months ago I went from being a man that loved to a man that was back to square one, who felt like it took him back to 17 whenever he just wanted to be loved for who he was, seeking someone who was genuinely committed to… (edited) read more

I pulled the plug on my old job. It was time. ByeBye old job, the old psychward for crazy teens that I adored. I am onto new things, the trauma and memories you gave me like an old toxic ex is finally enough for me.

@Kostas please @anyone for me? Yes I'm being blantly selfish but I really need the attention rn 🥹🥹. This old ward, is where I constricted core part of my identity. Inner resilience, inner empathy and inner intelligence from inner stupidity. My standards on dating apps based on the amount of… (edited) read more

Better and better

The less i avoid things and the more energy i put in to my physical health, the better i do mentally and physically. After a couple weeks of fatigue and hot flashes, I've gone back to the dietary changes and cleanses from queen afuas book "Sacred Woman" and started doing the explorations from… read more

Mentally I am here

Vanilla or modded

I’ve done countless vanilla playthroughs and to this day my friends think I’m a madman that I am still playing the game the way that I do. Currently trying a playthrough with a stealthy and silver tongued Alchemist, the speech checks make me laugh. Am I mentally ill for this?

Looking for friends~!

Hiii cutiesss, I'm an 18-year-old girl, even though mentally I'm like eight. I'd say I'm one of those weird kiddos with a questionable sense of humor....👉🏿👈🏿 Sorry for yapping, so I'll keep it short. I LOVE anime and manga, and photography and drawing are my passions. I enjoy gaming,… read more

Oh great, so I'm even making my cats mentally ill? 😟

You deserve what you tolerate

If he is not spoiling you he don't really love you Guys love spending for their love one's Its not only spoiling based on material things but spoiling you emotionally, mentally and physically Remember once you see the redflags, RUN There is no such next time or teach me how to love you He… read more

Two Strangers, One Marriage, Two Dead Children (4 part of the story)

At twenty-six, the time came for him to settle down. His fiancée was twenty. They had met only three times—as dictated by religious custom, and to question those customs would have meant losing one’s footing. Despite his rebellious nature, Aslan believed in fulfilling his duty, and a man’s duty is… read more

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Mentally still on vacation. Physically, unfortunately, employed.

Newbie 😇

Hello humans of boo 👋🏼 Pretty easygoing person trying to make friends across the globe I'm very spiritual/witchy, creative and genuinely a person with a broad mind, open to any kind of in-depth discussions. I have to be mentally stimulated to not get bored so please no small talk. I love to… (edited) read more

Good Evening!

Well, this is my first post on a site lol. Well, I’m Connor. Your average 30 year old nerdy guy, working on himself daily physically, mentally, and emotionally. I am hoping to fall in love on this app. Find someone I can bond with and star a life with. I backed the wrong horse, so to speak, with my… read more

bad things

Staying in a toxic relationship often ultimately becomes a ticking time bomb that destroys you, both mentally and emotionally !! I've felt that before, and the scars never go away.

Long lost

What is Something that you feel you've lost in the process of becoming mentally mature in this society that you want to be back at??

My first ever Milbert Tortoiseshell!!!

Been a while since I’ve posted! I’ve been on and off a lil, mentally, and I’ve had some not so great medical findings pfft <:] but I HAD to share this gorgeous little friend, holy crow what a phenomenal sight!!!

I'm mentally exhausted. 😵

Chain reaction of problems are becoming common.

My sleep rhythm got switched around due to illnesses, I've been up since 16:00 yesterday, it's 10:45 now. Public transportation is on strike today, so I have to walk to my appointment. The time of my appointment is in 5 hours, so I have to stay awake while I'm exhausted physically and… read more

Unpaid bills.

Periodically I find things I would like to share with the past loves I've had. A subject they were interested in, a video on their hobby, some Fandom they were a part of, their favorite flower growing tips. Usually it's a useful compulsion, I find something for my friends and family. A little… read more

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BRB mentally still in Thailand

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In that dark place, the thing is I'm so used to it the dark doesn't scare me anymore. Everything is so overwhelming so loud in my mind. I just need to find peace I'm mentally exhausted.

From waiting to freedom

When going silent and stepping back from a relationship that is not working (call it ghosting or cutting off or whatever) I sometimes discover I am still mentally there. After getting hurt and pulling back. Waiting for a contact, an appology, or checking around to see what the person is doing. If… (edited) read more