Hi, i'm Ninda. Thanks for stopping by on this post. Randomly this morning i had this thought that i wanna share especially to all of muslims people in here (and this is would be my 1st post ever of mine in this app lol). Recap of my mind from this morning that i would like to share : actually i dont mind to be alone cause most of time in my life is mostly being alone. TRUST is what enough from me. I could be left for days, weeks, months, years, but i will be always stay because once my trust and loyalty has been earned. I would stay. Its difference for each person but this is me. Me not seen like a slave, but me is just trully pure a commited and family oriented person. And i dont worry to be alone, cause me also a busy woman in a busy world. I cant stay keep quiet. Me need to be always keep moving. And i do enjoy to work, to self care my self and also help to support my family. So basically, whoever my life partner is, they dont have to worry about me being alone if they had to go to work with unpredictable amount of time, cause whats important in my life, is always the TRUST. And why me would stay loyal to whoever my life partner is? Because Allah hates a divorce. Once we already commited in marriage life, its all about we take the risk of spending the rest of our lifes together with someone that we trust and we would never leave their side, aside from love. Thats why according to Islam, marriage isnt just about love, but marriage is also a way to fullfilled half of our iman, our deen, our faith, as to get Allah's blessings. The best spouse for our life that would make our heart in peace and procreate in halal way, is only by that way (Al Quran has clearly stated about this. Al Quran, The Word of Allah). Marriage is more than that. By marriage, we commit to reach financial compromise as to living together forever. By marriage, everything we do is considered as halal and will always get Allah's blessings till the end of our lifes. Enjoy the lifes and work together as a powerfull team to built and manage the next generation of us. So yeah, we will see where it will be going.. everything is back to Allah decision. We are even powerless on our heart. He is the one who controlls our heart. Once He decide "Kun Fayakun", our heart would be easily changed like turning our hand palm. Thats why what sayyidina Umar ibn Khattab way of mind is an absolute valid: "My heart is always at peace and ease to fully understand that whenever things not meant to be me, would never be mine. But everything that meant to be mine, shall not flee from me". I do believes in destiny and karma. Our life in here, in this world, is short. Only about 1.25 hour converted with the afterlife time interval. And in 1.25 hour of our life, we are getting tested by Allah, to differentiate which man that obeys Allah and which arent. Because man is the only unique creature of Allah that has their own free will, wether they'd be choosin to obey or to be against Allah. Even in the dead, me always experienced a lot of life lesson from the dead muslims around me. People who is well known they did good in their former life, have the peacefull death ever even in their graveyard. But the people i've ever known that did a lot of bad things in their former life to others or even themselves, and didnt had any chance to repent their sins to Allah till their death, they got a trully painful death and a lot of strange things happened in their graveyard, wether it has a foul&rotten smell, got a lot of snakes came out from their grave yards, they cant be buried because the soils keep falling down, and etc. It's all happening in front of my eyes in my own neighbourhood. And the most worse things ever i had to witness all of those, were when me and my big family did once a grave pilgrimage to one of our family's graveyard in 2012, i did heard sounds of a painfull crying in one of the grave among all of the graveyards around with that one specific grave has a foul and rotten smell came out from the grave. What even more shocking was that, no one ever heard those painfull crying voices except me and my niece that has been known with Allah's gift to be able to know supranatural things. That 1 experience in my life is enough to made me understand that Allah is real, and Allah is always watching over us. And why do i really believes in supranatural things, aside from we as a muslims should be believes it, but because we clearly has a soul in our body that could not be seen by us. But once it gone, we would be dead easily. And our body that we proud of in this world , would never be able to save us in our death and afterlife, other than from our deeds and our iman. Thats what will save us against the afterlife's tortures that waiting for us because of our sins. Even the devils, are purely scared to Allah. Its just they had been cursed. They still has to run and spread their cursed to all of the mankind. So this is basically just my own perspective that i would like to share in here. Does anyone had similar life experience like me or even more than this? And, does this App would also can do its magic on make YOU find ur life partner?😏 (edited)