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On a serious note… May to October. Six months of consistent baby steps. 💪🏻 From focusing on building muscle to slowly refining and defining what I’ve built. Still learning, still adjusting, and enjoying the process along the way. And just because I enjoy taking mirror selfies and sharing gym… (edited) read more

Attraction gets your attention. Character keeps mine. ✨

Being attracted to me is easy. Getting to know me is where genuine interest shows. 😉 Ask me questions, be consistent, and show me you’re interested in the woman behind the looks. I’m not into unexpected sexual conversations or crossed boundaries. I prefer genuine connections, mutual effort, and… (edited) read more

Would you rather…

Would you rather have someone who makes you laugh until your stomach hurts, someone who gives elite-level hugs, or someone who understands you without needing an explanation? Choose wisely. There are no wrong answers. 💗

Not messaging a match

When you match with someone - as in, you swipe or like and see that the other person already liked you, do you message them right away? If not, why not? When do you message a new match?

Sober friends!

Hey yall I’ve been on and off on the app for a while and currently looking for sober friends or possibly more if it’s right? I’m currently early in my recovery and would love to meet people or a community who are kind of in the same spot!

It's all about 19 Oct.

This day will always be very memorable for me.Firstly, there was a cake cutting ceremony with family members.After enjoying ourselves for a few hours, we all went out for a big dinner. ❤️ You guys tell me, how do you like to celebrate your birthday, with family or with friends?

The sea in the morning... always beautiful..

Whether life is on an upward or downward trend... don’t pay it any mind, because the legs you’re walking on—are your own. (edited)

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What makes you feel more loved: words or actions?

Okay, settle this

Cats or dogs? And please don’t say both, I’m trying to start a debate here 😂

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really in the mood today, should i do siren or clown makeup first?

Best page of being single,

I’m losing my hope bcoz of my expectations. so I let someone easily comes to my life and let him ruin my heart. Now don’t let your expectations more than your hope or let someone making you as an options 🫶🏻🫶🏻

Halloween

What do 35+ year old adults do on Halloween besides watch horror movies and hand out candy to trick or treaters? That’s how it’s been for me for the last 5 or so years. I want to get dressed up and go out with friends like we used too. 👻🎃

Choosing between watching anime or sing a song while on my bed🙈🤣🤧 Singing for the win🤣🙈🤧

Do you prefer sunrise or sunset?

Less explaining, more healing. Less worrying, more living 🤍

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Why are people giving up so easily lately? Haven’t they watched Naruto or what?

holiyay

sunset or sunrise?

Trick or...

Wine! 🍷

I MUST know. What is a SPECIAL song that when you listen to it, you can just cry to or almost want to cry? I want to live through the eyes of others. Be genuine. It doesn't have to make sense to others as long as it does to you. So don't be shy! Share the artist and the song in the comments.

Bike or Car

​Two wheels or four? How are you tackling the mountain trip—by bike or by car? I prefer on Bike 🏍

Where are my heavily tattooed peoples at?

Sometimes I forget how much ink I have since most of it is on my back, then I catch a glimpse in the mirror or someone snaps a photo and I think, oh I have a lot going on 🤣 But my entire back, side and hip are colored in, and I’m almost done with my sleeves. It’s just a continuous process. It’s… read more

Good manners important🧠

When I give out my number, it means I give you access to get to know me. But most men lack basic manners, and as a result, they just end up on my block list. So, let me be clear: I’m not interested in playing games or fulfilling your fantasies. Having good manners doesn’t cost a thing🧠🙏

I'm just a girl looking for love if you're interested don't hesitate to send hey or hello☺️🤗

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Maybe this heart still has room for beautiful things 🥺🌷🤍 this is so beautiful! Question to men; how often has the thought of buying flowers come across your mind? Or if you did, what was reason of why you got some? Just really curious 🥹

Quick question

What makes someone perfect? Loyalty, honesty or kindness

Are Conversations Dead?

I've noticed that when people like your profile, say they want friends, and the moment you try to have a conversation, they either go completely silent. Or, they give super one word responses like "ya" "its a thing". That's not a conversation between people. It's a one sided conversation. I'm… read more

For me love is …

For me, love is finding someone with whom I can be myself, someone who brings me peace, affection, security and makes me feel truly loved. I want a man who respects me, who is affectionate, present, who chooses me every day and who shows what he feels through attitudes, not just words. I want to be… read more

Found this love story during my walk: did that trunk know love was accompanying him or her the whole time? Would love to hear what this picture tells you…. (edited)

Steak Night at Home

Decided to cook myself a steak for dinner tonight. Kept it simple with a little butter, garlic, and rosemary. The kitchen smelled amazing, and the crust turned out pretty well. I actually enjoy cooking at home once in a while, especially when I can take my time and have a glass of wine with dinner.… read more

Location and distance

How important is distance to you in dating? I don't look at location since I don't drive but I've found the people I click with best live hours or even states away from me. Some are even in another country. I prefer someone to be at least im the same time zone or only be an hour or 2 from my time.… read more

Do you think people can truly change, or do they just reveal who they are?

ICE CREAMMMMM (yeah it's vegan)

I forgot how much I really love vanilla flavoured ice cream. i usually order chocolate or strawberry, It was iut of stock so I ordered vanilla(and It was worth it). This is the first time after years that I'm trying vanilla flavoured ice cream. #vegan #coconutmilk #icecream

Recos. everyone??

Please share some movie or series recommendations for me to binge-watch! I’m into action, sci-fi, crime, and mystery. 🍿🎬

Attraction gets your attention. Character keeps mine. ✨

Being attracted to me is easy. Getting to know me is where genuine interest shows. 😉 Ask me questions, be consistent, and show me you’re interested in the woman behind the looks. I’m not into unexpected sexual conversations or crossed boundaries. I prefer genuine connections, mutual effort, and… read more

What if

WHAT IF THE APOCALYPSE HAPPENED IN 2026? Imagine waking up tomorrow and finding out the world is ending No internet no electricity no government no rules What would you do? who would you look for? and would you try to survive… or just enjoy your last days on earth? Be honest what's the FIRST… read more

Does emotional security come from knowing what to expect, or trusting the people who influence what happens?

I've been contemplating the distinction between uncertainty and insecurity. We often associate emotional security with stability, predictability, and knowing where we stand. But even the most predictable circumstances can become emotionally exhausting when the people involved lack… read more

I call it balance or whatever

❤️ NIGHT TALK! 🌙 If your crush texted you right now saying, “I miss you, come over” 🤭🔥 Would you go, ask questions first, or pretend to be asleep? 😂🙈 Be honest in the comments! 👇🤣

Solo Hike

I took a really peaceful hike today! Low key got lost in the woods for about an hour or so but I managed 🙃 (edited)

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I think there was once a time, once upon a time where one could treat themselves to a chocolate muffin without overcomplicating next week's budget. Or when 50g of garlic cloves didn't cost a whole R30. So today, I'm inspired. Someone's got to cut the costs somewhere, and action starts now lol… read more

I wanna ask something 😂 Any of you fake your relationship here just because you don't want get proposal to be in relationship?? Or your relationship status here is real 😅

Mine is it is what it is 😅