Partnered Community

I’m tired of being told to try harder to meet more people, attend more events, be more social as if effort comes with a guarantee. It doesn’t. More effort may improve the odds, but it doesn’t create the right connection.

What frustrates me even more is the suggestion that I should lower my standards or choose someone simply because they’re available. Available isn’t the same as compatible. Why would I build a life with someone I don’t genuinely want? To satisfy a timeline? To avoid judgment? To make other people... read more

How much racism have you experienced in the queer community here’s my story as a black femme woman?

I’d like to think I’m pretty attractive. I don’t care anymore about microaggressions from men and women as an asexual/biromantic woman who is partnered with my boyfriend, but on the lesbian queer side (at least on dating apps), the fact I wasn’t deemed relationship material and the fact people on... (edited) read more

“I’d rather be single with standards than partnered with panic“

Full stop. That's a wrap! To the pillow fort! Yes. 😌

Where Winds Meet

Anyone here playing Where Winds Meet too? I'm in the Oceania/Asia server, currently in the Velvet Shade sect and partnered up with 4 friends just to help them unlock the partnership perks. I'd really like to find someone I can chat and play the game with though. My friends are not that active... read more

Being the oldest

Soooo being the oldest in the family I wonder if anyone is going through what I have been. I’m the only one without kids, only one not in a relationship, never proposed to, my little sister is getting married. The one parent I had that I loved with all my heart was my mom and she passed about 4... read more

Partnered M looking for F

Been wanting to try and start an ENM poly relationship. My wife (hetace) is supportive yet hesitant in this endeavor. I'm not looking to move too quickly, just find somebody to talk to about it. Live in Southern Ontario. We both work and dont have kids but are hoping to in the near future. I'm the... read more