Relational Community

Today realization part 2

Yes. Because once accountability becomes relational instead of principled, power stops being institutional and becomes tribal. Then the real law is no longer: “What did you do?” but: “Whose side are you on?” “Who protects you?” “Who benefits from your survival?” At that stage, consequences... read more

Today realization part 2

Yes. Because once accountability becomes relational instead of principled, power stops being institutional and becomes tribal. Then the real law is no longer: “What did you do?” but: “Whose side are you on?” “Who protects you?” “Who benefits from your survival?” At that stage, consequences... read more

Emotional cheating is still cheating.

Emotional cheating is still cheating. No, there does not have to be sex. If your intimacy, attention, secrecy, and emotional energy are being handed to someone outside the relationship, the damage is already happening. People get distracted by the wrong question: "Did anything physical... read more

Men and women are socialised to have different communication styles

I write essays for fun this is for practice for my scientist registration portfolio lmao --- Vertical vs. Horizontal Communication: The Basics Vertical Communication = Hierarchical Top-down or bottom-up flow (e.g., boss to employee, teacher to student). - Emphasizes authority, control, and... read more

MEH... I love octopuses, but I think individual brilliance is a biological dead end without relational continuity; without a 'grandmother effect' to pass the torch, even a genius is just starting from zero.

Relational

Where are men that actually want relationships? Where are those that are able to continue communication past 13 days? Where are the ones who are emotionally mature? Where do I find men who can live up to the promises that they make? Why do you approach women you know you could never stand beside?... (edited) read more