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Posted Friday, March 1, 2024
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What is a mistake you'll try to avoid making in your next relationship?
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Starting a relationship overall
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Lowering my standards. Having to beg for the bare minimum and tolerating disrespect.
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Aries
Lowering my standards, and trying to dumb myself down some someone can understand my intellect.
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Marrying and having a child with a covert narcissist 🤷♀️
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Sagittarius
Trust
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ENFP
Leo
The mistakes in my past relationships have usually been my fault to be honest. And they seem to be different mistakes each time. So I'm not sure what I would do. I'd probably not make the same mistakes but end up doing something else equally silly Oohh...you are an English teacher. Me too (edited)
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4mo
INTJ
Taurus
I thought I had created a safe space for my ex to talk to me about her issues that were affecting our relationship. She said she didn't want to because she felt like she would be a bad gf and ungrateful because in her eyes I already did a lot. So for me it feels like I did not do a good enough job. So I am going to try harder on being open and receptive as well as encouraging my next partner to let me know, I want to be able to fix the issues instead of let them fester in darkness.
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Thoughts on age gap if you look young?
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