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1. Melancholic – Someone who experiences deep, persistent sadness. 2. Chronically Unhappy – Someone who feels unhappy most of the time. 3. Deeply Melancholic – Someone carrying a profound sense of sadness. 4. Wistful – Someone who feels a quiet sadness or longing. 5. Dysphoric – Someone… read more

Unpopular opinion

Unpopular opinion: Being attractive is nice, but having your life together, emotional intelligence, a good sense of humor, and knowing how to hold an actual conversation? Infinitely more attractive. 😌 I'm a sucker for witty banter, old-fashioned romance, and someone who's passionate about the… read more

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This dark cloud that hangs over me has been there so long I find comfort in it. To the point I don't know what I would do if it ever disappeared. Probably doesn't make sense but then none of it does (edited)

What's more attractive: confidence, a naughty sense of humour, or emotional intelligence?

Tonight, I’m spending a quiet moment listening to 963 Hz Solfeggio music.

Did you know? 963 Hz is often called the “Frequency of Oneness. In modern spiritual practices, it’s associated with the Crown Chakra, higher awareness, inner peace, and a sense of connection with the universe. Scientifically, these special spiritual effects haven’t been proven. However,… read more

CONCRETE JUNGLE IS NOT JUST A SONG. IT'S AN ENTIRE WORLD. 🌃🖤🔥

Four musicians. Four dimensions. One universe that keeps pulling me deeper. There are bands you enjoy. There are bands whose albums become part of your everyday life. And then there are bands whose artistic worlds make you want to explore every single detail, understand every creative decision and… read more

🖤🎸 ONE OK ROCK — some bands you listen to. Others, you NEED to experience live. 🔥✨

You know that feeling when a song doesn't just reach your ears, but somehow finds its way straight into your heart? 🥹🖤 That's what ONE OK ROCK do to me. And Renegades is such a beautiful example of why I'm so drawn to their music. ✨ That opening atmosphere… the tension slowly building beneath… read more

I MUST know. What is a SPECIAL song that when you listen to it, you can just cry to or almost want to cry? I want to live through the eyes of others. Be genuine. It doesn't have to make sense to others as long as it does to you. So don't be shy! Share the artist and the song in the comments.

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Do you believe humans are born with an inherent essence, or do we create our essence through experience? I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately. Sartre argued that existence precedes essence, meaning we aren’t born with a predetermined nature. Instead, we define ourselves through our choices… read more

Good morning... Happy Friday! May everyone have a day as joyful as its name suggests.

We often strive to fill the voids in our lives, seeking a sense of complete perfection—forgetting, in the process, that finding happiness in what we already have is enough, even if things aren’t as perfect as we had hoped.

Who is your perfect fit?

I keep seeing couples that make sense together. Ie two PhDs, two BJJ fighters, 2 gym rats, etc. What would your ideal match be into? I find myself attracted more to the complete opposite of me. Or maybe adjacent interests, but no major overlap.

Good morning... Happy Monday.

A heart that feels a sense of lack is never satisfied, no matter how much it acquires—but a heart that is content never feels a lack, even when it has very little.

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Life is beautiful but you don’t have a clue Sun and ocean blue Their magnificence, it don’t make sense to you Black beauty, oh oh oh🎵🎶🎵🖤🤍

Hey everyone!! I’m 24F from Japan! 🇯🇵

I’m here hoping to meet someone special and hopefully build a genuine, long-term relationship! I love classic rock, especially Guns N’ Roses, AC/DC, Aerosmith, Queen, and Red Hot Chili Peppers! 🎸 I also enjoy drawing, playing video games, watching anime, and having good conversations! I’m… read more

You can definitely see your way out

Okay so an earlier post of mine pointed out that women are not cattle. There is no way to be nice to somebody who has in a way verbally assaulted you. No matter what words you choose to use they will always be offended. I had somebody comment on the color of my hair and then immediately… (edited) read more

ABOUT ME 🪷✨🕊️

I value open, meaningful communication — no wasted time. Honesty, mutual respect, and selflessness are what matter most. Growing up with little support taught me something precious: I know what it feels like to be unvalued, misunderstood, excluded, looked down upon — and precisely because of… read more

Every time I train a new employee I always hope that they’d have a good sense of humour at least. But just my luck maaan. 😢

got over 5 years, struggling with 7 days. make it make sense.

𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙢𝙤𝙨𝙩 𝙪𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙧𝙖𝙩𝙚𝙙 𝙦𝙪𝙖𝙡𝙞𝙩𝙮 𝙞𝙣 𝙖 𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙤𝙣

Everyone talks about loyalty, sense of humor, or shared interests, and while those are great, I think the most underrated quality in a person is emotional presence. ​Being with someone who is actually there when you talk, who listens without just waiting for their turn to speak, and who can handle… read more

To my fellow autistic adults

If you don’t have a sensory tent over your bed, you are missing out, my friends! 🤌✨ The sense of genuine, undisturbed, calm I’ve gained from just the first 30 minutes, in this thing, was worth every penny!

Picture of mine

Each morning dawns, with a hollow sigh She faces the day, with tears in her eyes No gentle touch, no loving word Just a haunting sense, of being unheard Iyin_cuy

I have a question for the men!

I see this or hear this scenario quite a lot, maybe you can help make sense of it: Why is that when a woman gives their partner, who clearly wants more, free range to do whatever as long as they are transparent (basically an open relationship) and the woman can do the same as well, though it is not… (edited) read more

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A location that evokes a sense of nostalgia for me is "Tinuy-An Falls".

How I define a relationship/dating

A relationship is based on balance, effort and trust. Balance in the sense of back and forth conversation, no one being the only one talking, you both talk equally about what you are passionate about. Effort meaning actually saying more than a few words in response to something, giving real… read more

Part One: Engineered. Selection pressure with a steady hand and no sense of humour.

Soup is 🤍

I know it’s autumn when I suddenly begin to make soups again. This one is with forest mushrooms and cream cheese. PS There were quite a few comments and messages asking for a recipe. There is no recipe (in the sense of proportions), but I’m gladly providing the list of the ingredients. I never… (edited) read more

Leaving

What have you left behind cuz it just did not make sense anymore? I think I created a space to conect with people but they conect between themselves and not so much with me. Now, leaving feels “dramatic”, but it shouldn’t be, it should be something I want, right?

Fashion Queen

I love my sense of dress, and that's why I call myself the fashion queen. As I dress all girly and very fashionable

A handsome dimple guy, 27 yo with athletic body, sent me message, want to know me .. and next give me his number..🤔 I don't not jump into joy tho. I keep questioning his real intention. Do you think am too much or over thinking? Do I process it wrong in my mind? Please give me idea🥹

My mind keep asking, why he does it? What is his real intention? Like I need logic reason to make it sense. Is he real ? Didn't he see my age? Didn't he read I'm a single mom? (edited)

Girl besties??

It would be so nice to have some girl bestiesss In England that I could meet up with and have proper friendships Of course online friendships are proper but it would be nice to hang out and do hanging out stuff that girl besties do I'm kinda friendless in the irl sense Just online friends, and only… read more

What Is Your Greatest Fear?

We are all afraid of something. Loneliness, death, rejection, or losing someone we love. People often say, “I’m not afraid of anything.” Yet most of us experience fear when something matters to us. Sometimes, fear wakes us up in the middle of the night. Other times, simply imagining a difficult… read more

the dating pool...

IV been working on myself for so long that I honestly don't remember since when. IV been single for 7 years now and really have come to enjoy it. I don't know if I'll ever meet anyone, but the life IV built, the person I've become and the honest felt sense of well being I wake up with everyday has… (edited) read more

When a 22-year-old asks me for advice on how to succeed, I think the real question is whether they can actually understand and apply the advice at that stage of life.

There’s so much advice out there about how to succeed. You can study billionaires, entrepreneurs, or anyone who has achieved something significant, and they’ll all have different paths and different advice. But I think the more important question is: when you hear that advice at 22, what do you… read more

New place. A new sense of peace

I’ve been on a journey of self discovery for the last couple years. Finally, I’ve landed in peace 🥰✨

Looking for More Emotional INTPs

Are there any INTPs here that are more on the emotional side? I don’t mind connecting with other types but I find that they just aren’t truly logical and open enough for me to feel too invested in deeply bonding with them. We as INTPs have Extroverted Feeling as our inferior function, so it makes… (edited) read more

Is it just me? Am I the only one?

I'll make this as short as possible: I feel like there are people on this planet with a special gift. I feel like those people are deeply connected to something bigger. I feel like these people have a strong sense of purpose which is saving the world in any way possible. These people are extremely… read more

Sometimes...

Sometimes, I feel very lonely. Even while being surrounded by people, I still feel a deep sense of loneliness. In trying to keep everyone else happy, a person often forgets their own happiness and that is exactly how I feel too. No one truly understands your pain, your worries or the struggles you… read more