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Spirit💪💪💪 must be strong Being sandwich generation refers to middle-aged adults—typically in their 30s to 50s—who are simultaneously responsible for raising or financially supporting dependent children and caring for aging parents.

Really is hard sacrificed your young, your free, your happiness added you are eldest sister. That's why much more eldest sister stubborn, ego, cause she already independent by forced her situation

Prologue: The Promise at the Gate

(prologue longer than this just limit on here) Helios woke before the sun, the room cloaked in darkness. He lingered in bed, listening. Usually, at this hour, he'd hear the familiar scrape of his father's whetstone, his boots crossing the floor to the water basin, and his mother's gentle humming… read more

𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙙𝙞𝙛𝙛𝙚𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚 𝙗𝙚𝙩𝙬𝙚𝙚𝙣 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙥𝙤𝙣𝙨𝙚

A lesson that takes a long time to learn: not every situation requires an immediate reaction. Reacting is emotional and automatic; responding is conscious and grounded. The moment you learn to pause between what happens and how you handle it, life gets a lot quieter. Is this something that comes… read more

Let me cry here..

I don't know how to explain the pain of today. For a long time, I thought it was enough for me to be the only one feeling this exhausted by life. Just me feeling lost, feeling useless, feeling like my existence isn't really needed by anyone. I thought, at least I could still make the people I love… read more

Sometimes you have to accept the situation and say; It's okay, it happens, it's life.

Reading

Anyone wanna do a reading sprint with me? Cant focus and its annoying.. Just 2 people.. in a chat.. not chatting.. just reading.. with the plomise that they are ACKSHULLY reading and not NOT reading... Por favor To be clear.... you read your own book.. we aint gonna read the same book.. this… (edited) read more

Behind the scene

Not every gym session is a breeze! 😂💪 Real footage of me hip thrusting 160kg on a new machine. I used to manage 4 reps! Progress is happening, even if it doesn’t always look pretty. 😂 And yes, I got stuck trying to return the machine to its original position! 😂 New machine, new challenges.… (edited) read more

Its okay to walk away and move forward.

The scariest horror movie for me is staying in a situation youre nolonger being valued.

Can they invent a situation to where the other person actually likes me equally or even more than i like them

I am trying one more time

I’m trying to reach a girl that I really like. But the situation is a little complicated. But if this fails I’m going to stop dating forever. I’m tired. Positivity only brings you so far

What Is Your Greatest Fear?

We are all afraid of something. Loneliness, death, rejection, or losing someone we love. People often say, “I’m not afraid of anything.” Yet most of us experience fear when something matters to us. Sometimes, fear wakes us up in the middle of the night. Other times, simply imagining a difficult… read more

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I don’t want an apology. I want you to experience the exact situation you put me through so you can understand how it feels to be on the receiving end of your own actions. I wonder if you would still think it was okay if you were the one losing sleep, questioning your worth, overthinking… read more

Thoughts in Fiday

Whenever I find myself in an ambiguous situation involving a potential relationship, I take a step back. Regardless of whether there’s physical distance or not, I look at the small nuances - at people’s actions. It’s easy enough to say caring or lovely things, but what actual deeds follow those… read more

How present am I, really? And how present am I with the others?

Sometimes I wonder how often we are actually here, in the moment we are living, and how often we are somewhere else entirely. The mind has such a beautiful ability to travel through time. It takes us back into what has already happened, or forward into what might happen. It analyses, anticipates,… read more

Have you found ways that have made any of these things easier? (or add your own if you have something helpful to share)

The way I deal with: A. Social situations 1. fear of being judged 2. silence in a conversation feeling awkward 3. feeling like the odd one out in a group 4. being interrupted or talked over 5. meeting people when I have no social energy 6. fear of being seen as boring or unexciting 7. being… (edited) read more

Share Your Story

Has anyone done something that resulted in breaking your own heart due to your own dumb choices or decisions? I'll start with mine, because I'm bored and I'm sulking. I thought it was a good idea to talk to my ex as friends because we broke up a year ago around May, and I went through the 5 stages… read more

I'm blessed to have a good friend

We keep do an update life, listening to each other struggles and encouraging even my friend already going back to Spain since July. One thing that I like is this friend always believe in me that I'm a strong, kind woman and can pass through the storms more than myself on my lower situation.

I like you but... (Question)

I'm curious about something. I'm good at making friends but terrible at finding relationships. It kinda stings that someone can be so likeable but can't attract someone. I'm curious if anyone else here find themselves in the same situation?

Where I Want to Take This Further

The six questions describe a way of approaching complex problems that has emerged through my observations and ongoing development of a broader methodology. They are not intended to be universal laws, and I do not assume that every component will be equally useful in every situation. What… read more

I absolutely love travelling and adventure... however, one thing that confirms that I too am a spoilt brat is I that I'm always worried about the WC/bathroom situation... so for example, I doubt I'd last in jungles and the artic or something 🥲😇

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Finally I’m back on continues win streak rather than 1:1 win/ loose situation

Guess I’m okay mentality wise lol

Gay guy was hitting on me. Aggressively.

After I explained and apologized for not being gay, we both end up laughing at the situation. Then came the funny but somewhat painful question that I don't really want the answer to: "Why don't women hit on me this aggressively? Is there something wrong with me?"

Caught in the middle

So often, we do things we simply can't tell certain people about. It’s not that we’re doing anything wrong; it’s just the complexity of a situation we didn't even create. But when you’re caught in the middle of any relationship, you end up feeling stuck and unable to speak out. Moments like these… read more

Sweet Revenge

Sometimes, the greatest victory is getting your peace back. Sometimes, you reach a point in life where you are so fed up with a situation that you don't even want to argue anymore. You simply hand it over to the Lord and let life take its course. Let me tell you a little story. There was a man who… read more

Self worth

Ok, I so appreciate the responses on my last question. Such great answers! Tonight I'm thinking about our worth. I recently was ghosted by someone who said they knew their self worth and wasn't settling. But I think he thought that meant I need to chase him and show he's worth my time and energy.… read more

Graaaah, I was having such a great day and now I'm having low energy because of something that happened >:(

I hope I get over it. Heh, I always get over things kind of fast. I'm sure I'll be doing things normally in no time. I'm still pissed at the situation tho >:(

Jack of all traids

Alright, I gotta know. I have little to no interest in anything, I don't know if it's my mind set or if it's just my personality at this point, but I wanna know if anyone else out there is like me on this. I can do anything that is required to do. I'll learn it get the task done.… read more

Professional hacking

Some of my email accounts were hacked—and it was a professional job. I managed to recover them, change the passwords, and re-link the accounts, but the fact remains. I have a hunch about who did it and why, but the whole situation makes me angry, and I’d hate for this to have affected anyone else.… (edited) read more

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Someone asked me to explain a little about myself and my situation — because they found it hard to believe I am really 37 years old, so I would just like to be honest and open about it. My name is Zita, and I am 37 years old. I am single — I have never been married, and I do not have children. … read more

What If Every Part of You Isn’t Looking for the Same Thing?

A few minutes ago⏰, I photographed this rainbow lorikeet🦜 feeding in my garden. I was admiring the colours, the flowers 💐 , the sunlight and the remarkable contrast between them. The lorikeet seemed considerably more interested in breakfast. Same environment; different priorities. It made me… read more

Sometime you just have to accept the situation and say, it's okay, it happens,that's life. 😭💔

What’s your take on this situation?

Gaming as a Means to Get to Know Someone

I know people outside of the gaming space would probably think it sounds ludicrous, but I think gaming is a great medium to get to know someone, both in a friend sense and even a relationship sense. It helps bridge the gap in what might be an awkward situation otherwise. People who normally… read more

Repeating Patterns

Life repeats itself in repeating patterns because there was a lesson or relationship that needed to be recognized and acknowledged but you've missed it so it came back for you to understand it. If a specific situation repeats itself, pay attention to it.

KoRn - Helmet in The Bush (1994)

I keep asking, "What's your lie?" It is disturbing, this eases my mind (I) Days keep passing, one notch at a time (Feel) I don't feel right Please, God, let me sleep tonight Every day confronted, so-called friends giving in I just wanna know why Want to give it up!, No, I can't escape! Want to… read more

Rate my writing. I didn't use AI to proofread to correct my grammar coz I don't know what prompt to use without it altering the story.

Training arc: Seldex X Dhuurak and Flo. Seldex had an hour to train Flo after he had obtained permission from the high matron priestess. He led Flo with Dhuurak closely behind to a training ground. He taught the drow fighting stance. All visual and hands on. Seldex placed his hands on Flo's… read more

Relapse

How can you recover from trauma? Being left by your partner who has been with you for 14 years for another woman in his office 💔. I never even imagined I would face a situation like this

Rate my writing. If you have question on the flow of the story or critics are welcome.

Training arc: Seldex X Dhuurak and Flo. Seldex had an hour to train Flo after he had obtained permission from the high matron priestess. He led Flo with Dhuurak closely behind to a training ground. He taught the drow fighting stance. All visual and hands on. Seldex placed his hands on Flo's… (edited) read more