Theirs Community

People got some funny ideas about romance.

Someone just told me if I didn't choose to get a better job and make more money to pay for my significant others spending habits that I'm a selfish bastard. Period end of story. That's not romance. That's a spoiled brat. I believe in enabling my partner make their own money so they can afford... read more

Profile Types

I've had some people complain that my profile is too long, and I think they miss the point. I'm not trying to make my profile appeal to as many people as possible. I'm trying to filter out the ones I know I won't get along with. Find a profile you mesh with. Don't find a photo you like then... read more

Connecting with men has been a failure!

Mostly, because they weren’t interested in my feelings, thoughts, and opinions. But are very quick to tell me theirs. It always felt like i was just there to listen to them. They also didn’t seem interested in my desires, wants, and needs. But put theirs above all else. And of course had no... read more

Gaming Setup

Thought i’d just share this seeing as i have seen others share theirs, and just because we like a little bonus, there is a cat picture thrown in (edited)

Not a rare find.

They meet me like I’m something shimmering in tall grass— a chance encounter, a lucky spawn, something to weaken, capture, name their own. Their eyes light up not because they see me, but because they found me. I can feel it— the calculation behind their smile, the quiet thrill of acquisition, the... read more