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I've had some people complain that my profile is too long, and I think they miss the point. I'm not trying to make my profile appeal to as many people as possible. I'm trying to filter out the ones I know I won't get along with. Find a profile you mesh with. Don't find a photo you like then... read more

Not a rare find.

They meet me like I’m something shimmering in tall grass— a chance encounter, a lucky spawn, something to weaken, capture, name their own. Their eyes light up not because they see me, but because they found me. I can feel it— the calculation behind their smile, the quiet thrill of acquisition, the... read more

Short hair era

Best decision I’ve made so far I cut my hair short, and for the first time, a part of me can live on in someone else. It may just look like hair to some people, but to others, it’s confidence, strength, and a piece of themselves they’ve been fighting to hold onto🫶🏼 You might wonder who would... read more

Random thoughts at 1am

I don’t know since when I start to develop this kind of weird habits of “collecting”. T-shirts are what I have the most in my wardrobe. New. In plastic wrapped. Unworn. Some were worn once only. Some I received from winning offline and online giveaways. Some were given for joining certain events.... read more

Search for Meaning

I've accomplished most of my life goals and actually feel bereft. It wasn't as fulfilling or as fun as expected. I wish I hadn't encountered the dark side of humanity as much as I had, or that the good outweighed the bad much more. I feel sorely tempted to surge ahead for another career, another... (edited) read more

Many people love the idea of love...but hate the effort it takes to build it.

They want to be loved without loving back. They crave attention, but won’t give a second of theirs in returnLet’s be real… if money just kept landing in your pocket for free, would you bother working? Would you even think about earning it? Exactly. Same thing here. When people get validation... read more